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In this episode, hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler explore the depth and reality of shadow work — what it truly is, how it shows up, and why it becomes an essential part of spiritual and mediumship development.

Moving beyond the common misconceptions of “dark vs light,” this conversation brings a grounded and honest perspective to shadow work as a path of awareness, integration, and growth. Through personal experiences, client work, and teaching, the hosts share how shadow work naturally emerges on the spiritual path — often at moments of expansion, challenge, or transition.

From emotional triggers and nervous system responses to mediumship development and healing practices, this episode offers both insight and practical ways to begin working with your shadow in a supportive and realistic way.

Topics Covered

• What shadow work actually is (beyond common misconceptions)
• Carl Jung’s concept of the shadow self
• Shadow work as integration, not “fixing.”
• How shadow work naturally appears during spiritual awakening
• The connection between shadow work and mediumship development
• Emotional triggers as gateways to deeper awareness
• Anxiety, the nervous system, and shadow activation
• Why shadow work influences intuitive accuracy and interpretation
• The importance of doing your own work as a reader or healer
• “Hitting a ceiling” in spiritual growth and what it means
• Shadow work is an ongoing practice, not a one-time process
• Practical tools and approaches:
  • Journaling and self-observation
  • Body awareness and emotional tracking
  • Meditation and grounding practices
  • Bioenergetics and energy flow
  • Brain spotting and EMDR concepts
• The role of therapy and support systems
• Working with Spirit Guides to navigate shadow work
• Learning to hold space for yourself and others
• Reframing shadow work as growth and expansion

Notable Quotes

“It’s not about darkness — it’s about wholeness.”

“Shadow work is self-honesty — choosing to look at what’s uncomfortable.”

“When things start coming up, it’s a sign of growth.”

“You don’t finish shadow work. It’s a practice.”

“Your shadow isn’t here to stop you — it’s here to be integrated.”

Recommended Resources

• Women Who Run With the Wolves — Clarissa Pinkola Estés
• The Body Keeps the Score — Bessel van der Kolk
• Owning Your Own Shadow — Robert A. Johnson
• Meeting the Shadow — Connie Zweig & Jeremiah Abrams

Connect with Your Hosts

Carey Kaas — Medium & Mentor
🌐 www.careykaas.com

✉️ carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr
🌐 www.lorendacarr.com

✉️ spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler
🌐 www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com

✉️ mysticmedium7@gmail.com

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The Liminal Lounge | Episode 6: Ancestral Veneration & Healing with Guest Kisha K

In this powerful episode, hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler sit down with Medium, Mentor, and Spiritual Practitioner Kisha K for an in-depth conversation on ancestral veneration — what it is, why it matters, and how to get started. From healing generational trauma to setting spiritual boundaries, Kisha brings her signature warmth, wisdom, and grounded approach to one of the most transformative spiritual practices available to us.

Topics Covered:

• Kisha's personal awakening — from Southern Christian roots to spiritual practitioner
• What ancestral veneration is and why your soul will find its path regardless of your background
• How to start simply: a glass of water, a white candle, and free writing
• Why we give offerings and how they benefit both the living and the departed
• Your ancestors as a spiritual advocacy team — protection, guidance, and manifestation
• Ancestral work for adoptees — why you are "double blessed."
• Setting spiritual boundaries with ancestors who weren't good to you in life
• Healing generational trauma and breaking cycles
• Ancestral connection for the LGBTQIA+ community
• Working with spirits beyond your ancestors — and why you should go slow
• The difference between ancestors, saints, and deities

Notable Quotes:

"Your soul will find its path regardless of the journey."

"You may not know them, but they know you."

"Spiritual boundaries are real boundaries."

"The first thing that comes into your head is real. The second thing is you talking yourself out of it."

"Thank you for listening to our whispers when nobody listened to our screams."

Connect with Kisha K:

TikTok & Instagram: @BigCraftWorks

Readings: tarotoracle.com

🏛️ House of Dominion — Kisha's Online Spiritual School
A 3-year initiatory program for those beginning or deepening their spiritual journey. From deprogramming to embodiment, House of Dominion guides students through each stage of their path.

👉 https://www.tarotoracle.co/

Connect with Your Hosts:

Carey Kaas — Medium & Mentor
🌐 www.careykaas.com | ✉️ carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr
🌐 www.lorendacarr.com | ✉️ spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler
🌐 www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com | ✉️ mysticmedium7@gmail.com

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Liminal Lounge Mediums: Episode 5 – Synchronicities

Join hosts Psychic Mediums Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler as they explore the magical world of synchronicities — those meaningful moments when the universe seems to be speaking directly to you. This rich conversation covers personal stories of signs from spirit, the psychology behind pattern recognition, soul contracts and past life agreements, and how following synchronicities can radically transform your life. The hosts share their unique perspectives on how the universe communicates, how to ask for and recognize signs, and how synchronicity connects directly to manifestation and your soul's purpose.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Defining synchronicity: cosmic alignment, soul breadcrumbs, and "little winks" from spirit
• Lorenda's perspective: synchronicity as the universe aligning things on your soul's path
• Carrie's take: synchronicity as the "connective tissue" that opens and closes doors
• Michelle on synchronicity vs. coincidence and our connection to universal intelligence
• The psychology of synchronicity: frequency illusion, pattern recognition, and the reticular activating system
• How manifestation and focused intention amplify synchronistic experiences
• Asking spirit for specific signs and symbols — and the stories of when it worked
• The role of soul contracts, pre-birth planning, and past life agreements
• Lorenda's QHHT (Quantum Healing Hypnosis Technique) sessions and clients who weren't following their soul's path
• How synchronicity feels when you're in flow — and how your soul signals when you're not
• The synchronistic story of how the three hosts came together to create this podcast
• Michelle's breathtaking story: selling their Camp Chesterfield home and buying Valerie's house
• Carrie's story: manifesting her husband and her father's final blessing from his deathbed
• Real-time synchronicity: Lorenda's tarot cards confirming the episode's themes before recording

Notable Quotes:

"When the time is right, everything will synchronize."

"You can't make that up."

"Follow the synchronicities, follow those signs, and nine times out of ten, the people that are listening — their lives do change."

"Our inner world shapes our outer world experience."

"Spirit told me to buy a book. I bought the book. A year later it was exactly what I needed."

"Stay in the flow. It's a way easier way to exist."

"Never have I ever more felt like this is exactly where I'm supposed to be."

Connect with Our Hosts:

Carey Kaas – Medium & Mentor
Website: www.careykaas.com
Email: carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr
Website: www.lorendacarr.com
Email: spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler
Website: www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com
Email: mysticmedium7@gmail.com

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Join hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler as they explore the fascinating world of spirit guides and higher self consciousness. This comprehensive discussion covers personal experiences with guides, different ways to connect with spirit helpers, and understanding the higher self as a gateway to divine consciousness. The hosts share their unique perspectives on how guides communicate, the structure of spirit teams, and the multidimensional nature of spiritual guidance.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Defining spirit guides: core guides, master teachers, and specialized helpers
• The spiritualist structure: joy guide, doctor, teacher, philosopher, alchemist, and protector
• Personal experiences: how each host connects with and perceives their guides
• The difference between spirit guides and deceased loved ones
• Guide communication: clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, and claircognizance
• External validation techniques: asking guides to show specific signs
• Creating names and forms for ethereal beings
• The relationship between guides and personal growth
• Nature spirits, elemental spirits, and regional consciousness
• Higher self as connection to divine consciousness and the akashic field
• Multidimensional perspectives: past lives, future selves, and simultaneous existence
• Practical meditation techniques for connecting with guides and higher self
• Understanding that guides are learning from us as we learn from them

Notable Quotes:

"Just because you've created them in your mind's eye doesn't mean they don't exist."

"Spirit's gonna meet us where we are."

"We are just a spark of our higher self."

"There is no right or wrong to how we're experiencing things. There is no rule book."

"Ask them what you're learning from them and what they're learning from you."

"When I'm connecting with my guides, it's more clear cognizantly... it's almost like energetically, I feel that the vibration, their frequency, it's different."

Connect with Our Hosts:

Carey Kaas - Medium & Mentor

Website: www.careykaas.com

Email: carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr

Website: www.lorendacarr.com

Email: spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler

Website: www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com

Email: moyler67@gmail.com

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THE LIMINAL LOUNGE MEDIUMS - EPISODE 3: ETHICS IN MEDIUMSHIP

Join hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler as they dive deep into the ethics of mediumship. This comprehensive discussion covers the responsibilities mediums have to their clients, students, and the spirit world. The hosts explore consent, boundaries, trauma-informed practice, and the distinction between mediumship and mental health counseling.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Defining ethics in mediumship: "Do no harm" as a foundational principle
• The difference between ethics and morals
• Training new mediums: avoiding diagnoses, predictions, and harmful delivery
• Understanding consent and appropriate boundaries with clients
• The importance of spirit boundaries and medium control
• Navigating public message work and gallery readings
• Legal implications: mandatory reporting and professional limitations
• The distinction between mediumship and therapy
• Trauma-informed practice and self-care for mediums
• Doing your own healing work before helping others
• Discretion in public readings and protecting client privacy

Notable Quotes:

• "Ethics is about leaving a person better than how you found them."
• "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should."
• "The medium is always in control, period."
• "It's not what we say, but how we deliver the message."

Connect with Our Hosts:

Carey Kaas - Medium & Mentor
Website: www.careykaas.com
Email: carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr
Website: www.lorendacarr.com
Email: spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler
Website: www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com
Email: moyler67@gmail.com

We'd love to hear from you! Contact us with your questions, feedback, or topics you'd like us to cover in future episodes.

Episode Description:
Join hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Michelle Oyler as they dive deep into the ethics of mediumship. This comprehensive discussion covers the responsibilities mediums have to their clients, students, and the spirit world. The hosts explore consent, boundaries, trauma-informed practice, and the distinction between mediumship and mental health counseling.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Defining ethics in mediumship: "Do no harm" as a foundational principle
• The difference between ethics and morals
• Training new mediums: avoiding diagnoses, predictions, and harmful delivery
• Understanding consent and appropriate boundaries with clients
• The importance of spirit boundaries and medium control
• Navigating public message work and gallery readings
• Legal implications: mandatory reporting and professional limitations
• The distinction between mediumship and therapy
• Trauma-informed practice and self-care for mediums
• Doing your own healing work before helping others
• Discretion in public readings and protecting client privacy

Notable Quotes:

• "Ethics is about leaving a person better than how you found them."
• "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should."
• "The medium is always in control, period."
• "It's not what we say, but how we deliver the message."

Connect with Our Hosts:

Carey Kaas - Medium & Mentor
Website: www.careykaas.com
Email: carey.thepsychic@gmail.com

Lorenda Carr
Website: www.lorendacarr.com
Email: spiritualinsightnetwork@gmail.com

Michelle Oyler
Website: www.michelleoylermystic.wordpress.com
Email: moyler67@gmail.com

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Episode 2: Decoding the Language of Spirit

Hosts: Michele Oyler, Lorenda Carr, and Carey Kaas - Professional Psychic Mediums

Episode Length: 41 minutes

Description:
Join us as we explore the fascinating world of spiritual communication and learn how to recognize the different ways Spirit connects with us. In this episode, we dive deep into the "Claires" - the psychic senses that allow us to receive messages from the spirit world - and discover how these abilities are available to everyone, not just professional mediums.

What You'll Learn:

• The six primary "Claires" (psychic senses) and how they work
• How to identify your strongest intuitive abilities
• The connection between chakras and psychic senses
• Real-life stories of Spirit communication from working mediums
• Practical ways to strengthen your spiritual connection
• Why Spirit meets us where we are and adapts to our unique abilities

Key Topics Covered:

The Six Claires:

• Clairsentience (Clear Feeling) - Sensing energy and emotions
• Claircognizance (Clear Knowing) - Just knowing things without explanation
• Clairvoyance (Clear Seeing) - Receiving visual images and symbols
• Clairaudience (Clear Hearing) - Hearing Spirit messages and guidance
• Clairalience (Clear Smelling) - Receiving messages through scent
• Clairgustance (Clear Tasting) - Experiencing tastes as spiritual messages

Highlights:

• Michelle's powerful story of hearing spirit during a Reiki session
• Lorenda's experience with her grandfather's aftershave saving her from a car accident
• Carey's intense encounter with spirit in a historic home
• How Spirit "dresses" Lorenda for platform demonstrations
• The connection between Oracle cards, Tarot, and Spirit communication

Perfect For:

• Empaths discovering their abilities
• Anyone experiencing a spiritual awakening
• Those wanting to connect with deceased loved ones
• Spiritual seekers building their intuitive foundation
• People curious about mediumship and psychic development

Resources Mentioned:

• Episode 1: Foundations of Grounding and Energy Protection (recommended prerequisite)
• Goddess Rising Membership
• Camp Chesterfield

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Email: hello@liminallounge.com

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Key Takeaway: Spirit meets you where you are and communicates in ways you can receive. Your job is to develop self-awareness about how these messages come through for you personally.

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Welcome to the Liminal Lounge! In this foundational episode, hosts Lorenda Carr, Michelle Oyler, and Carey Kaas dive deep into essential spiritual practices that every medium, intuitive, and spiritual seeker needs to master: grounding, energy clearing, and protection.

Whether you're just beginning your spiritual journey or you're an experienced practitioner, this episode offers practical tools and scientific insights to help you maintain energetic balance, protect your energy field, and connect more deeply with both spirit and the earth.

What You'll Learn

✨ The Science of Grounding - Discover the research by Clint Ober on earthing and how connecting with the earth neutralizes harmful EMFs and reduces inflammation

⚡ Energy Protection Techniques - Learn multiple methods, including energy bubbles, mirror shields, and the rose method, for protecting your energetic field

🌍 Practical Grounding Methods - From barefoot earthing to tap dancing, explore diverse ways to ground your energy in everyday life

🔮 Working with Your Guides - How to set intentions and work with your spirit guides for automatic energy protection

🛡️ Clearing Negative Energy - Techniques for releasing energy you've absorbed from readings, clients, or daily interactions

Key Topics Covered

• Understanding your energetic field and why grounding matters for mediums and sensitives
• Real stories from students about the importance of protection during readings
• The science behind earthing - Clint Ober's research on electromagnetic fields, inflammation, and health benefits
• Protection methods: energy bubbles, two-way mirrors, pyramids of light, and the rose technique
• Practical applications from dance to daily rituals
• Rituals and intention setting using candles, reminders, and personal practices

Featured Resources

Key Concepts:

• Schumann Resonance (Earth's electromagnetic frequency)
• EMF exposure and positive/negative electrons
• Antioxidant effects of grounding
• Inflammation reduction and nervous system regulation

Practical Takeaways

🌱 15-Minute Earth Connection - Stand barefoot on natural ground for 15 minutes to fully exchange electromagnetic energy

📱 Set Daily Reminders - Use phone alarms to remember energy clearing and grounding practices

🕯️ Candle Ritual - Light a candle when "open for business" with spirit, blow it out when closing your channel

🪞 Mirror Protection - Visualize two-way mirrors around your aura to reflect negative energy back to sender

🌹 Rose Method - Use visualized roses around your aura to absorb and transmute unwanted energy

Health Benefits of Grounding (Science-Backed)

• Antioxidant effects and free radical neutralization
• Reduced inflammation throughout the body
• Improved sleep quality
• Nervous system regulation
• Enhanced blood health
• Natural pain relief
• Cortisol balance

Connect With Us

We'd love to hear from you! Share your grounding experiences, ask questions about the topics we covered, or suggest future episode ideas.

📧 Email: hello@liminalloungepodcast.com

Coming Next Episode: Your Psychic Abilities - Understanding Your Clairs (clairvoyance, clairsentience, clairaudience, and more!)

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Welcome to the very first episode of the Liminal Lounge podcast! Join hosts Carey Kaas, Lorenda Carr, and Rev. Michelle Oyler—three professional psychic mediums—as they introduce you to this sacred space for spiritual seekers, empaths, and intuitives.

In this inaugural episode, you'll discover what "liminal" means and why it's the perfect name for this podcast. The hosts share their personal origin stories, revealing how each of them discovered and developed their psychic and mediumship abilities. From childhood experiences to divine synchronicities, these stories will inspire anyone on their own spiritual awakening journey.

You'll also learn what to expect from future episodes, including topics like mediumship development, psychic abilities, energy healing, past life regression, Akashic Records, and so much more. This is a grounded, practical, and relatable approach to spirituality—with plenty of shenanigans along the way!