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In this episode of Mad About, Maddy Alexander-Grout is joined by the wonderful Michael Bown, community champion, performer, theatre-lover, choir member, charity supporter, and quite possibly the busiest man alive.

Michael shares what life looks like as an autistic person with big passions, a packed calendar, and a deep love for performing, community, musicals, festivals and making a difference. From attending hundreds of theatre shows a year to singing in multiple languages, collecting DVDs, making personalised badges and taking part in local community events, Michael shows the joy, dedication and brilliance that can come from fully embracing your special interests.

The conversation also explores autism, bullying, burnout, belonging, friendship, performing, finding your people, and why being different is not something to hide from.

This is a beautiful, funny and heartfelt episode about autistic joy, community, and what happens when someone finally finds the places where they feel safe, seen and celebrated.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Michael’s role as a community champion in Lichfield
• His love of theatre, musicals, choirs and festivals
• Attending hundreds of shows and events every year
• Special interests and going “all in”
• Autism, dyspraxia and diagnosis at age 12
• The impact of bullying and finding belonging later in life
• Burnout and the pressure of a packed schedule
• Performing as a place of safety and connection
• Collecting DVDs, badges, calendars and memories
• The power of community, friendship and making a difference

Key Takeaways

• Special interests can be powerful sources of joy, identity and connection.
• Autistic people are not all the same, and social needs can look completely different from person to person.
• Finding the right community can change everything.
• Burnout can happen even when you love what you do.
• Being different is not wrong. It can be brilliant, beautiful and deeply meaningful.
• Belonging often comes from finding people who celebrate your quirks rather than question them.

Favourite Quotes

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to Michael and the Mad About Podcast
00:56 – Michael’s Life as a Community Champion
01:41 – Choirs, Concerts and Singing in Seven Languages
04:05 – Theatre, Musicals and Personalised Badge Collecting
05:17 – Special Interests, Shows and Going All In
06:32 – Work, Volunteering and a Very Busy Calendar
07:35 – Burnout, Rest and Reducing Pressure
09:30 – Autism, Socialising and Breaking Stereotypes
12:20 – Museums, Family Memories and Special Interests
14:53 – Maddy’s Sea Glass Collection and Creative Joy
16:03 – Lists, DVDs and Michael’s Collections
20:49 – Performing, Belonging and Feeling Safe on Stage
22:39 – Festivals, Lichfield and “Viva Lich Vegas”
28:58 – Michael’s Autism Diagnosis
30:05 – Bullying, Difference and Starting Again
35:42 – Walking for Autism and Making a Difference
37:26 – What Michael is Mad About

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In this solo episode of Mad About Podcast, Maddy Alexander-Grout gets honest about ADHD, shame spirals, gym guilt, money avoidance, task paralysis, and the pressure neurodivergent people put on themselves to “do the thing.”

From struggling to go to the gym without a PT, to investing money, overspending, procrastinating, and putting unrealistic expectations on herself, Maddy explores how the word “should” can become one of the biggest blockers for neurodivergent brains.

This episode is a reminder that you are not lazy, broken or failing. Sometimes your brain is overwhelmed by pressure, guilt and emotional weight — and the more shame you pile on yourself, the harder it becomes to start.

Maddy talks openly about ADHD, PDA, spending addiction, fitness, self-worth, and why tiny steps matter more than perfection. Plus, why all your “shoulds” probably belong in the fuck it bucket.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• ADHD, PDA and task paralysis
• Shame spirals and procrastination
• Gym guilt and putting pressure on yourself
• Why neurodivergent brains resist “should”
• Money avoidance and emotional spending
• Investing, saving and taking tiny financial steps
• Switching tasks and ADHD overwhelm
• Motivation vs pressure
• Tiny habits that reduce barriers
• Self-worth, identity and internal criticism
• Why community support matters for neurodivergent people

Key Takeaways

• The word “should” often creates shame instead of action.
• PDA can make demands — even self-imposed ones — feel emotionally impossible.
• Tiny actions build momentum better than perfection does.
• Doing something is always better than staying stuck in guilt.
• Shame keeps neurodivergent people frozen. Compassion helps movement happen.
• Reducing barriers can make difficult tasks feel more accessible.
• You don’t need to transform your whole life overnight.

Favourite Quotes

Chapters

00:00 – Why Maddy is Mad About the Gym
01:02 – ADHD, PDA and the Shame Spiral
02:20 – Strengthening Your Core Physically and Emotionally
03:05 – Task Paralysis and Emotional Weight
03:52 – Investing Money and Finally Doing the Thing
05:06 – Spending Addiction and Shame Around Money
06:02 – Ibiza, Book Writing and Reducing Pressure
06:50 – The “Fuck It Bucket” and Self-Worth
07:08 – Removing Barriers and Getting to the Gym
08:10 – Tiny Financial Steps That Build Momentum
08:55 – The Maddyverse and Community Support
09:32 – Why Neurodivergent People Need Cheerleaders
10:05 – Letting Go of Shame and Giving Yourself Grace

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In this episode of Mad About Podcast, Maddy Alexander-Grout sits down with Alyssa for a brilliantly honest, chaotic, funny, and emotional conversation about neurodivergence, identity, trauma, performance, and the pressure to fit into a world that often doesn’t understand different brains.

Together they dive into the realities of living with ADHD, the long-lasting impact of bullying, rejection sensitivity, masking, burnout, and why so many neurodivergent people use humour as a survival tool. From cringeworthy moments and public perception to self-expression, grief, nostalgia, and self-care, this episode feels like a conversation between two people who genuinely get it.

It’s funny. It’s vulnerable. It’s validating. And it’s a reminder that sometimes the people who laugh the loudest are carrying the heaviest stories.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• ADHD, diagnosis journeys, and late discovery
• Bullying and its impact on confidence and identity
• RSD (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria)
• Why humour becomes a coping mechanism
• Performing, masking, and audience expectations
• The evolution of communication and online culture
• Alcohol, self-care, and neurodivergent coping strategies
• Balancing work, rest, family, and overstimulation
• Trauma, grief, and finding laughter in dark moments
• Cringe stories, public mistakes, and awkward memories
• Authenticity, visibility, and embracing who you really are

Key Takeaways

• Humour can be healing, especially for neurodivergent people navigating difficult experiences.
• Many ADHDers grow up feeling “too much” or misunderstood.
• Bullying and rejection can deeply shape self-worth and self-expression.
• Rest is not laziness — especially for neurodivergent brains.
• Authenticity becomes easier when you stop performing for everyone else.
• Shared experiences create powerful connection and validation.

Favourite Quotes

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction to Neurodivergence and Humor
02:59 – Alyssa’s Journey to Diagnosis and Performance
05:52 – The Impact of Bullying on Neurodivergent Individuals
08:55 – Nostalgia and the Evolution of Communication
11:51 – Navigating RSD and Audience Perception
13:56 – Public Expectations and Algorithms
14:46 – Alcohol, Self-Care, and Coping Mechanisms
18:36 – Balancing Work, Family, and Personal Needs
21:52 – Embracing Neurodivergence and Self-Expression
26:30 – Coping with Grief and Finding Humor
27:35 – Cringe Moments and Professional Mishaps
32:53 – Why Trauma Often Creates Dark Humor
36:46 – Defying Societal Norms and Embracing Authenticity

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