How do other people experience you?

It's a simple question, but one most of us rarely stop to consider.

In this episode we discuss the gap between intention and perception, why people can have a completely different experience of us than the one we think we're creating, and why understanding that difference can change careers, relationships and leadership outcomes.

We talk about confidence, reputation, first impressions and the reality that perception often shapes opportunity whether we think it's fair or not.

We also explores interviews, workplace dynamics, body language, reception areas, leadership blind spots, social awareness and the importance of understanding how your behaviour lands with other people.

We also cover unusual feedback from an aura reader, real-world examples of perception shaping outcomes, and why some people unknowingly make themselves harder to approach than they realise.

The episode finishes with a broader discussion about risk, opportunity, backing yourself and a simple idea that sits underneath many of life's biggest decisions:

Don't die wondering.

In Short:

• Confidence versus intimidation
• Leadership blind spots
• First impressions
• Interview preparation
• Reception staff and hidden assessments
• AI taskforces and workplace change
• Self-awareness and social awareness
• Risk, opportunity and backing yourself
• Why most people wait too long
• Don't die wondering

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What does it actually take to build a successful life?

Not just financially or professionally. A genuinely successful life.

In this episode we discuss the five foundations that we believe sit underneath long-term success:

• Commitment
• Health
• Family
• Faith
• Purpose

The conversation explores why talent eventually runs out, why commitment matters more than motivation, how health underpins everything else, and why people need a tribe around them if they want to thrive over the long term.

We also spend time on one of the more difficult topics, faith. Not necessarily faith in religion, but faith in something. Faith in yourself, your family, your future, your community, or the belief that tomorrow can be better than today.

We discuss starting a business, overcoming fear, volunteering, building purpose when you feel lost, a new study into anxiety, Court of Unpopular Opinion, open-plan offices, government spending, boredom, social media and why modern life seems increasingly designed to keep us distracted.

We are always surprised how much ground we cover.

In Short:

• Entrepreneurship and risk
• Commitment and resilience
• Health and performance
• Family and community
• Faith and belief
• Purpose and meaning
• Volunteering and contribution
• Anxiety research
• Open-plan offices
• Economic challenges
• Technology and attention
• Modern life and fulfilment

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

We start with Birkenstocks end with leadership, impulsivity, artificial intelligence, Genghis Khan, reputation, career advice and simple rules for avoiding unnecessary problems.

We talk about impulsive decisions, why some people repeatedly find themselves dealing with the consequences of avoidable mistakes, and how to deal with it.

We cover emotional reactions, delayed decision-making and why a small pause can change the trajectory of a conversation, a relationship or even a career.

The conversation then moves into artificial intelligence, the future of work and whether people are focusing on the wrong part of the AI revolution. Technology may continue to accelerate, but human beings still need meaning, purpose and connection.

We also discuss leadership, first impressions, starting a new job, building credibility, asking better questions, and the behaviours that damage trust before people even realise they are doing it.

Somewhere in the middle we end up talking about Genghis Khan.

Pretty standard episode, really.

In short:

• Why impulsivity is rarely the real problem
• The gap between reaction and action
• The seven-day email rule
• Delayed decisions and better outcomes
• AI, work and the search for meaning
• Why human beings need purpose
• Leadership mistakes people make early
• First impressions in a new role
• The fastest ways to damage credibility
• Questions that build trust across teams
• Genghis Khan, Temujin and long-term thinking
• Birkenstocks and unnecessary purchases

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

Another Fast Five. Five questions, no preparation, and wherever the conversation goes is where it goes.

This episode goes from secret competitiveness and teenage expectations into free will, parenting, ageing, irrational fears, spiders, boxing, skydiving, piano lessons, filing cabinets, and whether “Lawyers Ding Dong” should become a legitimate sporting event.

The five questions were:

1. What are you secretly competitive about?
2. What would 16-year-old you think of you now?
3. What’s the best part about getting older?
4. What’s your most irrational fear?
5. What’s one thing you wish you’d done, but probably never will?

Along the way we talk about:

• Secret competitiveness and internal pressure
• What 16-year-old you would think today
• The calmness and self-knowledge that comes with age
• Free will, parenting and modern uncertainty
• Why younger generations face more paths but less certainty
• Irrational fears and imagined problems
• Stoicism and managing anxiety
• Spiders, Mike Tyson and fear responses
• Piano lessons and unfinished ambitions
• Professional fighting and “Lawyers Ding Dong”
• Filing cabinets, libraries and workplace nostalgia

A thoughtful episode hidden inside complete nonsense.

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Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

This episode starts with Brian Eno, creativity, obsession, and what it actually takes to produce world-class work over decades.

We discuss the trade-offs behind highly successful creative lives, whether elite performers need complete immersion to operate at the highest level, and why many of the world’s best artists, athletes and founders often require someone else managing the practical realities of life around them.

From there, the conversation shifts into public speaking: nervousness, preparation, storytelling, confidence, pacing, silence, mistakes, audience psychology and why your personal style matters more than copying somebody else’s.

We also discuss:

• Top public speaking tips!
• The trade-offs behind ultra-success
• The Laffer Curve and Australia’s tobacco excise disaster
• Whether social media has tipped into a net negative
• Annual performance reviews
• LinkedIn
• Leadership
• Accountability
• And finally… “chip creep.”

Somewhere between serious and ridiculous, which is usually where these episodes end up.

In Short:

Creativity, obsession, public speaking, social media, leadership, Court of Unpopular Opinion, and chip creep.

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

Christian Tiktok: @leaderbilt

Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

Another Fast Five. Five quick questions, no preparation, and wherever the conversation goes is where it goes.

This episode moves from memorable meals and funny stories into family, near-death experiences, parenting, ugly dogs, work, relationships, and what it actually means to feel present in your own life.

The five questions:

1. What is your most memorable meal?
2. What is the best moment of your life (outside the kids)?
3. What is something you would steal from each other’s wardrobe?
4. What was the last thing that made you properly laugh?
5. If you had to swap jobs, what part of the other person’s work would you enjoy most?

In short:

• The meals and moments we’ll never forget
• Becoming a lawyer and making your parents proud
• Pre-GFC corporate chaos and made-up songs
• Near-death experiences and their effect
• Parenting, memory and self-perception
• Why ugly dogs are objectively funny
• The difference between freedom and structure at work
• Swapping careers and hidden workplace envy
• Truth-telling, leadership and discretion
• Joy maxing and cry maxing

A bit more emotional than we expected.

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

Christian Tiktok: @leaderbilt

Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

We start with the federal budget it leads us to aspiration, ambition, confidence, workplace tactics, Steven Spielberg sneaking onto movie sets, and why Australians need to stop apologising for wanting more out of life.

We break down the major themes of the budget, including tax cuts, negative gearing, capital gains tax changes, deficits, infrastructure spending, small business pressure, and the cynical spinning of 'helping' young people, while really pulling up the drawbridge.

The conversation looks at whether current policy settings are encouraging growth, risk-taking and business creation, or slowly discouraging people from trying to build anything at all.

We also get into practical workplace tactics, how to QUICKLY change the way people perceive you inside an organisation, building authority without formal power, and why timing, initiative and proactive behaviour matter far more than most people realise.

Then somehow we end up talking about Steven Spielberg sneaking onto the Universal lot as a teenager, James Cameron going from truck driver to Terminator, fake it till you make it, confidence, leadership, and “love maxxing.”

Probably favourite so far. xx

In Short:

• The federal budget and why reactions have become so tribal
• Tax cuts, deficits, negative gearing and CGT changes
• Whether Australia is discouraging aspiration and risk-taking
• Why fanning resentment toward ambition is a mistake
• The psychology of aspiration vs cynicism
• Why it’s okay to openly want success again
• Workplace tactics that quietly change how people see you
• Building authority without formal power
• Fake it till you make it… properly
• Steven Spielberg, James Cameron and acting before you feel ready
• “Aspiration maxxing” and “love maxxing”

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

Christian Tiktok: @leaderbilt

Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co

Five fast questions, no preparation, and whatever answer came out first was the answer.

We ended up talking about the small things we genuinely look forward to every day, the books that have stayed with us, what we would eat forever if calories didn’t exist, and the things people misunderstand about us.

Then the conversation shifted into relationships, what actually makes them work over time, and why becoming the best version of yourself matters more than trying to get something from another person.

Some of it is serious, some of it is ridiculous, and some of it probably says more about us than intended.

The Five This Week

• What is one thing you look forward to every day?

• What is your favourite book?

• What would you eat every day if there were no calories or health consequences?

• What is something about you that would surprise people?

• What is your best relationship advice in one sentence?

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Christian Insta: @leaderbiltacademy

Christian Tiktok: @leaderbilt

Leadership training and coaching: Leaderbilt.co