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Most parents don’t start out or aspire to be deadbeat parents…not really. They might be jerks or psychopaths or sociopaths or narcissists or curmudgeons or psychotic or unstable or unfit or insane or ill or unhappy or ill-tempered or emotional or delusional or unrealistic. They become deadbeat parents for a myriad of reasons that we will explore in this book.

This short audiobook will tell you the weaknesses you may have that may prevent you from fully strategizing and working through the court process. It will explain what areas you may get hung up with, and it will explain to you some of the sneaky things that happen in the court room that you might not be prepared mentally or emotionally for.

Most people who enter into a toxic relationship don’t really know what the definition of a healthy relationship is. They know that they don’t want to get into another toxic relationship that will end in divorce. But what exactly is a healthy relationship? In 20 minutes, we will cover what a healthy relationship looks like. It looks a lot different from the toxicity that you may be used to living under, whether it was with your ex or a narcissistic, or ill-attuned parent.

The narcissist is the ultimate soul crusher. He strategically locates and selects his prey. He usually preys on the weak, the broken and the empathetic and sympathetic. He loves people who don’t believe in guns or violence, because he knows that he can control them without them putting up much of a fuss. The narcissist is a weakling beneath his tough exterior, thus you can believe that he will run if a male who is tougher than him challenges him.

In most things, how much participation you put in matters. In court, however, being overly involved in the court proceedings, giving the court too much information to look over, tampering too much in what the lawyers are negotiating, and acting as an authority in front of the judge will get you into hot water. In 20 minutes, you'll learn how to separate yourself, emotionally, from the outcome of the court case. We will help you to recognize that the blueprint of your life and your identity doesn’t have to take this outcome as a failure.

In 20 minutes, this audiobook will teach you how to look like the good guy in court even when your narcissistic ex or mentally ill ex is dragging your name through the mud.

Whack! The plates go flying at your head. He kicked you in the shin again, or punched you in the face, or choked you, or slammed your head against the wall, or tried to drive you off the road again. How much more can you take? We’ll take you for a spin on the power and control wheel and the healthy relationship wheel to see how you fare and compare. You’ll have some more help by the time we are done. Then I will let you off to your newfound freedom.

This audiobook will explain all the different potential disorders you may be dealing with and how to find the toxic traits in your mother. You will understand the toxic traits, cruel behaviors, and domineering tactics deployed by our mothers. You will learn how you can fall prey to our mother’s narcissistic whim and why we are just a pawn in the whole scheme of things to our parent.

Do you know that there are predators right under your nose? There are predatory humans just like there are predatory animals. These predatory humans don’t have your best interests in mind. They seek to use and exploit you. When a serial killer is caught, many of us are shocked to realize who it was, how handsome he was, how pretty she was, and how intelligent. The predatory human blends in with everyone else.

How can someone possibly fortify themselves against a narcissist and live another day to tell the story? Sometimes it feels like we just do not know where to start to begin a new chapter of our lives.

This audiobook will expose frequently asked questions and detailed answers that people have inquired about over the years regarding narcissism. Narcissistic people only see what they can gain out of a relationship and nothing else. If you have something they want or need, then they will find a way to win you over until they have what they were after.

Congratulations. You are going through a divorce with a narcissist. Let’s start this again.... Congratulations. You are attempting court negotiations with an extroverted child.

Why can’t we all just get along? This audiobook will help you weed out how a narcissistic person thinks and operates. You will find the most frequently asked questions and more importantly, their in-depth responses. “I’m sorry” is exposed and why a narcissistic will say exactly what you need and want to hear just to get you off their backs.

Discover how to talk to a narcissist, why they will cheat on you, and what they think about having a disorder. More importantly, you will learn how to identify if your friends, family, or coworkers are narcissistic. You will find out why you should take control of your situation before it is too late.

If you are reading this, it is likely that you or someone you know is suffering from a lifelong condition called OCPD, or obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. OCPD is a lifestyle. The person does not realize that they have the rigidity of OCPD. The person is unhappy, and the people around them are unhappy, but they cannot pinpoint why they are unhappy. OCPD is a personality disorder in that the disorder is deeply engrained within the person’s personality.

If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, it is no doubt that you have been subjected to the worst psychological warfare that there is: gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of abuse and torture that can cause you to break. It can cause you to lose your mind. It can cause your psyche and your rationality to separate at the seams. Gaslighting can damage you in ways that nothing else can damage you. It is a form of brainwashing that should only be used in war, but is used against you right in your own living room.

Anyone who has ever been around a narcissist knows how nasty his game can be. The narcissist will gaslight you. He will destroy your business and your financial security. He will annihilate your relationships with almost everyone in your life. If you don’t like him, or if you speak ill of him, he will do whatever it takes to demean, devalue, and destroy you.

This audiobook discusses the anal retentive nature of the narcissist. We talk about how the narcissist is so high-strung and methodical he can hardly get anything done with any efficiency. We discuss how surly he gets when he lives in an environment with other people who clash with him. We will give case examples of people who have had to live with the narcissist’s ridiculous standards, and how it can cause serious emotional damage to try to walk on eggshells in the narcissist’s environment.

Gaslighting is one of the most devastating tools that exists in the narcissist’s arsenal. If you have been subjected to gaslighting by a skilled narcissist, it is no doubt that you have suffered significant PTSD, Complex PTSD, Cassandra Syndrome, Battered Person Syndrome, and more. You were led to believe that you were damaged, crazy, psychotic, etc. You were led there by someone who was much sicker than you were. Gaslighting is dangerous and devastating.

Seemingly out of the blue, the narcissist cheats. You don’t realize it, but all the while throughout the whole relationship, the narcissist was cheating. He was doing little things here and there that might have given you clues that he was cheating. He covered many of them up. He couldn’t let on to you that he was cheating, or that he was grooming another mate, or that he was looking for your replacement all this while. After all, he views himself as a "good guy", and nothing you do or say will change his view of himself.