In Episode 4 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid take a closer look at how modern dating culture has shifted away from intentional, future-focused relationships toward something much more casual and short-term. With the rise of hookup culture and a “take it day-by-day” mindset, many people are dating without a clear purpose or long-term vision—often avoiding conversations about commitment, marriage, and what they truly want.

Deacon Tom and Jeb reflect on how this change has impacted the way people approach relationships, sharing personal insights and stories that highlight the contrast between past and present dating cultures. They explore how a lack of intentionality can lead to confusion, unmet expectations, and relationships that never fully develop into something lasting.

At the heart of the conversation is a call to return to a more purposeful way of dating, one that keeps the future in mind. Rooted in a Catholic understanding of love and vocation, this episode emphasizes the importance of being clear about intentions, pursuing relationships with honesty, and recognizing that dating should ultimately be oriented toward something deeper, including the possibility of marriage.

This episode challenges listeners to move beyond casual dating habits and instead approach relationships with commitment, clarity, and a vision for the future, trusting that God has a plan for authentic, lasting love.

iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

In Episode 3 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid focus on how dating, marriage, and relationships began to shift significantly in the 1960s and 1970s amid broader cultural changes. They discuss how increased personal freedom and evolving social norms influenced expectations around relationships for both men and women, and how those changes carried into the 1980s, helping shape the foundations of today's dating landscape.

Throughout the episode, Dcn. Tom and Jeb share personal reflections on navigating these cultural shifts, particularly from the perspective of faithful Catholics seeking to understand and live out authentic relationships in a changing world. The conversation ultimately centers on the importance of remaining grounded in faith, emphasizing that a shared commitment to Christ is the most essential foundation for a strong, lasting marriage. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.

In Episode 2 of iDeall Relationships, Dcn. Tom Deall and Jeb Eischeid continue their journey through the history of dating by focusing on one of the most transformative periods in modern relationships. From the structured courtship of the late 1800s to the cultural shifts of the 1940s and 1950s, they explore how World War II reshaped dating, gender roles, and expectations. As society moved into the post-war boom and toward the social revolutions of the 1960s, dating began to take on a new identity—less formal, more individualistic, and increasingly disconnected from its original purpose. This episode unpacks how those changes still influence the way we approach relationships today, and sets the stage for an even deeper dive into the cultural upheaval of the 1960s in our next episode. iDeall Relationships airs Monday nights at 8:00 p.m. Central Time.