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Winging It

Winging It

By: Winging It Studio
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Welcome to Winging It, the podcast that proves nobody really has it all figured out.

We’re Chris and Lisa. We’ve been together for 20 years, married for 15, raising three daughters, wrangling two dogs, and doing our best to keep all the plates spinning without dropping too many.

Every week, we sit down for honest conversations about family, relationships, parenting, work, mental health, the ridiculous things our kids say, and the everyday moments that make up real life. Some weeks we’re laughing until we cry. Other weeks we’re just trying to survive bedtime.

There are no celebrity lifestyles here. No perfectly curated social media moments. Just two ordinary people sharing the chaos, the challenges, the funny stories, and the occasional bit of wisdom we’ve picked up along the way.

If you’ve ever wondered whether everyone else is secretly making it up as they go too, you’re in the right place.

New episodes every week.

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Episodes
  • Episode 19 - Couples Therapy, Birthday Disasters & Two Chaotic Dogs
    Jun 13 2026

    After weeks away, we’re finally back in the new Winging It studio… and the dogs immediately took over.

    In this episode, Lisa talks about finishing counselling and the surprising moment her therapist told her she no longer needed regular sessions. We discuss what therapy actually changed, learning to advocate for yourself, relationship mistakes, difficult conversations, birthdays gone wrong, Rock Choir, the Edinburgh Fringe, and why personal growth isn’t always comfortable.

    We also attempt to record a podcast while being constantly interrupted by Winston and Angus, who clearly had plans of their own.

    In this episode: • Finishing therapy and what comes next • The birthday mistake we’re still talking about • Learning to stand up for yourself • Rock Choir and finding joy in work • Edinburgh Fringe preparations • Relationship reflections • Two very chaotic dogs

    If you’ve ever tried to have a serious conversation while pets, children or life itself had other ideas, this one’s for you.

    🎙️ Winging It with Chris & Lisa Duke

    #WingingItPodcast #CouplesPodcast #Therapy #MentalHealth #Marriage #Relationships #Counselling #DogOwners #PodcastUK #ADHD #PersonalGrowth

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Episode 18 - Injured By A Doctor...Abroad
    Mar 19 2026

    What started as a summer working abroad in Corfu quickly turned into something we didn’t expect.

    In this episode, we tell the full story. From the moment Chris was pushed into the pool during a show and tore ligaments in his ankle, to dealing with the aftermath in a country that suddenly didn’t feel quite so welcoming.

    But the injury was only part of it.

    We talk about what life was really like working abroad, the cracks that started to show behind the “dream” lifestyle, and how things gradually spiralled. From poor living conditions and sewage coming through the room, to feeling completely unsupported, this was the point where everything began to shift.

    There’s also a more honest conversation about money. How small, unnoticed spending builds up, how ADHD plays into impulse decisions, and the system we’ve started using to take control of it before it gets out of hand.

    It’s a mix of chaos, reality, and a few moments where all you can do is laugh at how ridiculous it all was.

    In this episode:

    • The pool accident and ankle injury

    • What medical care abroad was actually like

    • The reality of living and working in Corfu

    • When the “dream” started to fall apart

    • The hotel conditions that pushed things too far

    • ADHD, impulse spending, and money struggles

    • The system we’re using now to fix it

    🎭 If you want to support One Missed Call (Chris’s men’s mental health musical heading to the Edinburgh Fringe):

    👉 https://missedcallmusical.com

    Every share, every donation genuinely helps move this forward.

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    1 hr and 20 mins
  • Episode 17 - The Game That Nearly Caused A Divorce
    Mar 5 2026

    In this episode of Winging It, what starts as a simple word game quickly turns into chaos. Chris and Lisa test whether they are actually compatible by trying a game where they must say the same word at the same time. It sounds easy… until it absolutely isn’t. Along the way they talk about:

    • Sitting through a real criminal trial at Glasgow High Court

    • Why justice sometimes restores your faith in the system

    • Being brutally honest about the cost of living and financial stress

    • Dealing with internet trolls

    • Parenting, illness and trying to hold life together

    • A powerful dream that felt like healing an inner child

    And of course… the game that nearly caused a divorce. If you enjoy honest conversations about life, marriage, parenting and the occasional ridiculous argument, you’ll feel right at home here.

    Subscribe and join us every week as we continue Winging It.

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    1 hr and 26 mins
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