When you’re dealing with a narcissist, peace doesn’t come from changing them. It comes from changing how you show up.

In this episode of Wildly Her, I’m breaking down one of the most powerful truths in healing: your interaction is your protection.

We’ll talk about why engaging, defending, explaining, and waiting for accountability keeps you trapped… and how stepping out of that cycle is where your freedom begins. This is where you start to gain clarity and protect your peace.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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In this episode, I’m opening the door to my own story. I’m sharing the reality of what it took to walk away… the violence, the heartbreak, the unraveling of everything I once called my life. Because no one really talks about this part.

Leaving doesn’t feel empowering at first. It feels like grief swallowing you whole. Because leaving wasn’t just a goodbye, it was a collapse. It’s not just the relationship you lose. It’s the people, the family, the familiarity, the system you knew, the identity you built to survive it.

I’m also breaking down the stages many narcissists move through when you leave. I'm talking about the patterns, the reactions, the attempts to pull you back into what you fought so hard to escape. I don't want to incite fear, but to prepare you. To help you see clearly when the chaos tries to rewrite your reality.

This episode is for the woman standing at the edge. The one who knows she needs to leave, or already has, and is wondering why it hurts this much.

You’re not weak for grieving. You’re not wrong for choosing yourself. Sometimes the bravest thing you will ever do is walk away and keep walking.

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In this episode, we’re talking about two more beliefs that stay long after emotional and psychological abuse ends. These are some that make you shrink, hide, and panic because you feel like you’re still the problem… even when you’re finally free.

You’re not broken. You were conditioned in an environment that trained you to believe you were.

This is a continued conversation about unlearning the identity you were given, understanding why healing takes time, and gently beginning to separate who you are from what you were taught to believe.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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In this episode, we’re talking about the beliefs that stay long after emotional and psychological abuse ends. The ones that make you question yourself, doubt your worth, and feel like you’re still the problem… even when you’re finally free.

You’re not broken. You were conditioned.

This is a conversation about unlearning the identity you were given, understanding why healing takes time, and gently beginning to separate who you are from what you were taught to believe.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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In this episode of Wildly Her, I'm talking about emotional conditioning. The subtle, often invisible patterns that slowly teach you to shrink, second-guess yourself, and keep the peace at your own expense.

When you’ve been in a narcissistic or emotionally manipulative relationship, the damage isn’t always loud or obvious. It’s layered. It’s quiet. And over time, it changes how you see yourself. Emotional conditioning doesn’t happen overnight and it rarely looks like control at first.

If you’ve ever felt confused, small, or like you lost your voice without knowing exactly how it happened, this episode will help you put language to what you experienced and begin finding your way back to you.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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In this deeply honest episode of Wildly Her, I open up about one of the most confusing and painful dynamics in narcissistic and emotionally abusive relationships: triangulation. Triangulation is a tool used to control, divide and manipulate. When communication is filtered through a third person, it can quietly erode trust, distort reality, and create distance between the people who need connection the most.

I'm getting very personal and giving real examples from my marriage of how triangulation showed up not only between me and the children, but also in other family relationships. I want you to know what it is and how it works. I talk about how this dynamic can leave us feeling fractured, misunderstood, and emotionally unsafe, and why so many of us don’t even realize it’s happening until much later.

This episode isn’t just about naming the harm. It’s also about healing. I want to describe it so that you can step out of it when possible, and what it looks like to repair relationships that were strained or damaged by being pulled into someone else’s narrative.

If you’ve ever felt caught in the middle, spoken about instead of spoken to, or watched relationships suffer because of manipulation and divided loyalties, then pull up a chair. This episode will help you recognize the pattern, understand its impact, and begin choosing healthier, more honest connection moving forward.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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In this episode of Wildly Her, we talk about how emotional and psychological abuse erodes self-trust, why our nervous systems cling to what’s familiar even when it hurts, and how having just one safe, grounded person can help us come back to ourselves. When we’re with someone who is emotionally regulated and empathetic, our nervous systems can co-regulate with theirs bringing calm, clarity, and the ability to make decisions from our own strength instead of fear.

This isn’t about someone telling you what to do.
It’s about finding safe alignment so you can hear your own voice again.

You don’t need anyone to agree with you to choose better for yourself.
But you do deserve support that helps you feel steady enough to do it.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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When we believe someone we love may be in an emotionally or psychologically abusive relationship, our instinct is often to fix it, warn them, or push them to leave. But what if, in our fear, we unintentionally begin to mirror the very control we’re urging them to escape?

In this episode, we talk about what it truly means to support a friend who may be in an abusive relationship, without taking away their autonomy, voice, or choice. We explore why trying to dictate someone else’s decisions can feel unsafe, why pressure often backfires, and how control, even well-intentioned, is harmful.

Healing doesn’t happen through force. It happens through safety, consistency, and being a steady presence. We discuss how to encourage the good, reflect truth gently, hold space without ultimatums, and remain a safe place someone can return to when they’re ready.

TRIGGER WARNING: ABUSE AND TRAUMA

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