Episodes

  • Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Responding to our haters... | EP 49 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Jun 11 2026
    We're mad and we all have something to say! Timestamps:00:00:00 Intro00:00:30 The Pickleball Problem00:04:15 Why Pickleball Took Over00:05:18 Is Pickleball Actually Hard?00:06:43 When the New Thing Replaces the Old Thing00:09:30 Chelsea Tries Pickleball00:12:04 Men vs. Women: Who Has It Worse?00:13:00 Is It Easier to Be a Woman Content Creator?00:14:40 The DEI Conversation00:16:15 The Reality of Being a Woman00:17:35 How Do You Support Your Partner on Their Period?00:19:15 Why Couples Rage Bait Each Other00:21:30 Do Women Start Arguments on Purpose?00:24:13 How Much Fighting Is Normal?00:26:00 Is Checking Your Partner's Instagram Toxic?00:28:08 50 Episodes Later...00:29:16 Why Everyone Thinks We're Fence Sitters00:32:48 People Pleaser or Just Nice?00:37:32 Toast Explains His Face Reveal00:40:16 The Insecurity Toast Can't Shake00:43:18 Learning Confidence the Hard Way00:44:59 We Need to Leave Our Comfort Zone00:46:15 Toast's 100-Day Streaming Challenge00:47:38 Why Being Real Beats Being Negative00:49:15 Why Outdoor Boys Wins Every Time00:52:42 We Wouldn't Last a Week in Alaska Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This

    we made our producer CRASH OUT 👀 | EP 48 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Jun 4 2026
    Toast gets 2v1'd again? Chelsea's back and she breaks down. timestamps: 00:00 Chelsea's Return & The "2v1" Dynamic 03:05 Reflecting on the past episodes 04:28 Chelsea breaks down 11:43 Asian Canadian Identity 12:55 Thoughts on FOB’s 16:40 Toast and Yvonne road trip 22:06 Empathy & Podcast Dynamics 34:08 The Reality TV "Male vs. Female Gaze" 38:16 The "Club Comment" Incident 40:48 Flight Reimbursement 45:21 Road trip to vancouver 46:27 Vegas trip 51:23 OTV "PR Training" Tier List 54:49 Gambling Sponsorship Ethics 1:05:00 Online Thirst Traps 1:09:20 Ethics of Leaking Information 1:12:03 Yvonne's Gaming Performance 1:18:23 Forced Compliments & Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 26 mins
  • Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Being annoying is an art, and we've mastered it | EP 47 | We Were Fighting Before This
    May 28 2026
    Are war movies sexy? And how did Toast trick Yvonne to be her sidekick...? Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:51 Nate’s last thoughts on Yvonne 3:03 Toast questions Yvonne 4:41 Yvonne’s behavior gets her into trouble 7:02 Bid for attention? 9:05 War movies 12:50 Doing it during war movies… 13:35 Toast blames Yvonne on deflecting 17:38 “I’m Ugly” 22:24 Yvonne believed she was ugly 28:01 Toast’s POV on being unattractive 29:55 When Toast locks in 36:02 Dream physique 38:38 Pivoting lifestyles 42:44 Is Yvonne a supporting character? 44:42 Thoughts on OTV 50:25 Being consistent 54:04 How willing are you to clip farm 56:24 How do you have a friendship with an EX 1:00:42 Who’s the better league player 1:10:00 Still fighting over league…. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 27 mins
  • The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This

    The Perfect Relationship Doesn't Exist | EP 46 | We Were Fighting Before This
    May 21 2026
    Dating is HARD. It's even harder when you're oldge Start your business today with the industry’s best business partner, Shopify. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial today at https://SHOPIFY.COM/beforethis Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:00:34 Toast is late..? 00:02:03 Coconut 00:02:27 We read the incel comments 00:05:14 Reading comments as a streamer 00:08:39 Toast looked for these comments 00:09:59 Unbiased Nate pt 2 00:10:48 Clocking each other’s tea 00:12:26 Nate does the intro jingle 00:13:35 Yvonne’s dating update 00:15:29 Would Yvonne date any of her peers? 00:17:33 Should Yvonne lower her standards? 00:18:49 When ur partner isn’t that self-aware 00:22:00 The 90/10 rule 00:23:04 What have we learned from each other? 00:24:42 What we thought when starting this pod 00:27:24 Toast strat of finding topics 00:28:24 Perfect relationships don’t exist 00:32:05 Yvonne’s vibecheck 00:34:02 Nate’s dating life 00:35:57 Dating when you’re getting older 00:39:09 James Charles tea 00:41:22 Fans asking for money 00:42:35 Celebrities not getting cancelled 00:44:06 Kick streamers going to jail 00:46:47 Prank era of YouTube 00:47:44 How to get attention on social media 00:49:47 Streamer fatigue 00:53:05 Unlimited guests on the pod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This

    This Podcast Broke our Friendship | EP45 | We Were Fighting Before This
    May 14 2026
    What are actual good compliments, why you should lie to your friends, and did this podcast actually make or break Toast and Yvonne's friendship? Timestamps:00:00:00 We Were Really Fighting Before This00:00:24 NATE IS HERE00:04:05 Yvonne is a Labubu00:06:14 Chelsea’s projecting questions00:07:39 Receiving compliments00:09:32 Totally unbiased moderator00:11:23 S Tier compliments00:15:17 Repeating Questions to a Stranger00:16:40 Lucky Girl Syndrome00:20:08 How Guys Become Friends00:23:40 Describing their relationship to an outsider00:25:26 Did the pod improve their relationship 00:30:22 Acknowledging feelings00:32:01 Liking other girls’ photos..00:34:57 What even is a good guy00:37:36 How to tank your attractiveness00:41:15 The Male Heroic Fantasy00:43:22 Giving your life for someone else00:45:48 Raising a child is hard00:47:08 Toast’s existential hospital encounter00:49:30 The Amazing traits of Disguised Toast00:52:00 Receiving Compliments & Self-sabotage00:55:19 Reading Comments as a Streamer00:56:59 Food Vloggers are FAKE00:58:32 Lie to your friends 01:01:13 People think Toast is mean01:03:46 What is Misandry?01:08:59 Toast’s Deleted Sykkuno Tweet01:13:05 Things clipped out of context01:14:26 Taking the Centrist POV01:18:12 The incels are not gonna like this one01:19:28 How Internet Drama evolves01:21:50 Hello Millenials01:23:00 Creator Labels01:25:00 Toast is scaring away the Patreon members Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 33 mins
  • Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Nice guys finish last, and Toast is here to prove it | EP 44 | We Were Fighting Before This
    May 7 2026
    Toast reveals his ultimate revenge plan against his friend group while Yvonne and Chelsea are tricked into Toast's mind games. 00:00 Intro 1:05 Tomodachi Life 2:25 Is being nice an advantage or disadvantage? 6:50 Toast is a hater of the word NICE 8:51 Guys don’t want to be called nice 11:45 Would you rather be nice or funny 13:05 Respecting mean individuals? 15:20 Showing your mean side to your SO 17:00 Yvonne’s patience in a relationship 18:55 Yvonne pisses Toast off… 21:20 Toast wants Yvonne to admit when she was mean 24:32 Do we forgive easily or HOLD ON to things 26:07 Seeking revenge 28:00 Toast’s evil plan of vengeance 30:02 Toast’s plays mind games with us… 34:28 Is Toast a feminist? 37:44 Tost’s confession 38:48 Rapid fire questions 42:36 What we do before we sleep 45:00 Toast loses sponsorships 48:50 America’s Next Top Model and documentaries 53:32 50cent a #1 hater Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr
  • Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Let's talk about Sykkuno | EP 43 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Apr 30 2026
    We found out the same way you did… Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:50 Toast wants updates on Yvonne 1:07 Sykkuno drama 31:52 Growing together 38:02 Reflection 41:17 Life / Dating / Work Advice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This

    Lilypichu PROMISED Yvonne she wouldn't do this... | EP 42 | We Were Fighting Before This
    Apr 23 2026
    Our girl Lilypichu is back on the pod and this time she is making Yvonne uncomfortable for an hour straight.... Timestamps: 00:00 Lilypichu Intro 1:01 What Lily would do for Yvonne 2:23 Self sabotage 6:00 Love languages 8:38 Michael Reeves learning Chinese 11:22 Learning another language 13:20 Lily wants to IMPROV… 19:20 Lily and Yvonne FIGHT 21:43 Lily continues to make Yvonne uncomfortable… 23:55 Lily reflects on her fight with Toast…. 23:41 How Lily feels about OTV 27:30 Lily got her drivers license 31:54 Lily’s perspective on improv 32:57 Picking our Mt. Rushmore 38:20 How Lily become friends with Toast 39:55 Writing letters to our future self 42:20 Lilys present vocaloids in college 43:50 Lily makes Yvonne uncomfy again 46:30 Memories in the old OTV house 47:40 Mi fan the cat 49:45 KISS MARRY KILL YVONNE EDITION 59:17 Coachella FOMO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 4 mins