Somewhere in trying to save your marriage...you lost yourself. After betrayal, it's easy to become consumed with what they did and whether you can trust them again. But what about you?

In this epidose, we're talking about how betrayal pulls you into survival mode- and how to start coming back to yourself without ignoring what happened. '

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• (00:00:15) - The Hurt Spouse's Story
• (00:05:00) - What Really Happens To A Divorced spouse After The Bet
• (00:10:08) - How a Divorce
• (00:14:23) - How To Get Out Of A Trap In Your Marriage
• (00:19:28) - Fixing My Marriage: How to Love Your Husband
• (00:24:00) - How to Realign After a Breakdown: Finding Yourself
• (00:28:39) - Don't Lose Yourself in the Fight for Your Marriage

"if we really love each other... this shouldn't be this hard."

It's a quiet belief a lot of us carry into marriage - and when things feel difficult, it can make us question everything. In this episode, we're unpacking why this isn't true, what hard moments in marriage are actually revealing, and how to stop seeing struggle as a sign something is wrong.

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• (00:00:15) - Easter Family Vacation
• (00:03:45) - Celebrating the Feast of Tabernacles
• (00:05:56) - The Lie That Love Should Make It Easy
• (00:11:20) - Did You Expect Your Marriage To Be Easy?
• (00:14:54) - What Is Actually Happening In Marriage?
• (00:18:27) - Marriage is Death to Self
• (00:22:04) - How to Win an Argument in a Marriage
• (00:26:33) - How to Love Your Partner
• (00:32:44) - How to Love Your Spouse (4
• (00:37:08) - The Case for Christian Marriage
• (00:38:13) - The PAIN IN MARRIAGE
• (00:42:46) - TRAVEL

Most of what builds a great marriage doesn't feel sexy.

It feels intentional. It feels awkward sometimes. It feels like choosing discipline over desire and consistency over chemistry.

In this episode, we talk about the unsexy work of building a great marriage - the conversations, the boundaries, and commitments that don't make the highlight reel but actually create safety, trust and lasting connection.

If your marriage feels less spontaneous and more deliberate right now, you're not failing-you might actually be building something solid.

Check out ShanaWilliams.com for more Marriage Altar resources and coaching information.

• (00:00:15) - Foxes Eat Their Own
• (00:00:57) - The Unsexy Work Of Building A Great Marriage
• (00:04:59) - How To Love Your Marriage When It's Old
• (00:08:53) - God's Plan for My Marriage
• (00:13:56) - How to Heal a Broken Marriage
• (00:18:36) - How To Get Out Of Your Marriage
• (00:21:34) - Marriage: The Unsexy Part
• (00:25:45) - Be the Rock For Your Partner
• (00:26:11) - Why Does This Work Feel So Hard?
• (00:28:17) - Paul on Boundaries in His Marriage
• (00:32:41) - Marriage: The Right to Die
• (00:33:43) - The Fun, Fun Part of Marriage
• (00:38:10) - Marriage Is About Safety, Not Chaos
• (00:40:16) - Marriage Is Not Sexy
• (00:44:18) - How to Talk To Your Wife About Problems in the Marriage
• (00:49:05) - A Couple's Advice on Their Marriage
• (00:52:14) - Why Don't We Get Help For Our ptsd?
• (00:56:18) - How to Get Your Marriage Back on Track
• (00:59:03) - Valentine's Day Podcast