Do you think you have grit?

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Research has shown that the most common characteristic of elite performers and high achievers is grit.

Understood as the passion and perseverance for very long term goals, Grit is not about natural ability or talent, but rather how we choose to grow.

Your favourite resident psychologist, Dr Emily Musgrove, is back in the studio this week to talk about how you can become a grittier person!

We also look inward, as Josh asks how to maintain grit when it feels like your inner critic is overwhelmingly loud.

Dr Em, so great to have you back.

0:00 – Down with the nonchalance!
5:43 – Talent vs Excellence
10:40 – Interested in finding your interests
16:42 – For the non-naturals in the room
24:22 – Effort is essential for excellence
32:17 – Practicing, kindly
35:01 – Hope is earned
42:06 – The good and bad criticism
53:45 – Encountering pain and discomfort
59:54 – For the greater good
1:06:09 – The dark side of perseverance

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🫖Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode

• Dyson Heppell - Whatever It Takes… To Forgive - https://bit.ly/4egeneO
• Nedd Brockmann - The Man, The Myth, The Neddgend - https://bit.ly/4egfATo
• Dr Emily - Hope - https://bit.ly/43YalTr
• Bri Lee - Babies+Climate=Anxiety - https://bit.ly/4xlrYdl
• How I Built ‘Dis’ - The Resilience Project Story - https://bit.ly/4aH0dSP

📚Things to read

• Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth - https://bit.ly/4vzoe6o
• Self-efficacy, by Albert Bandura - https://bit.ly/4fx4KdW
• Master of Change, by Brad Stulberg - https://bit.ly/4xCbUEv
• Peak: Secrets from the New Science of Expertise, by Anders Ericsson - https://bit.ly/3Q9cIje

📺Things to watch

• THE GAP, by Ira Glass - https://bit.ly/4xjkuHL

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At just 16, Ellyse Perry was the youngest person to ever debut for the Australian International Cricket team. 13 days later, Ellyse debuted for the Matildas.

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Arguably one of the greatest athletes of our time, Hugh, Ryan and Josh chat to Ellyse about how she stays so grounded amidst her incredible success, and whether she is able to separate who she is from what she does.

Ellyse chats to the guys about her relationship with her dad (Josh and Hugh furiously take notes), and how both her parents were able to instil a love of trying rather than winning.

And then we get onto social anxiety; what it feels like for Ellyse, why she loves silent retreats, and how she manages it in front of her fans.

Ellyse, you are a literal ray of sunshine. Please come back anytime.

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0:00 – Is THAT AI?
5:05 – Running (and bowling) it’s natural course
11:24 – The feeling of not trying
17:18 – Parents: Be A Good Sport
29:22 – Prepare to be disappointed
40:23 – Bitter sweet World Cup
46:48 – The complexity of ego
1:03:54 – Practicing presence
1:10:30 – Hugh’s advice for big moments

🫖Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode

• Pat Cummins - Love, Loss & Life - (1:14:20) - https://bit.ly/3PRku11
• WHO ARE YOU? with Dr Emily (+ secret code word) - (17:20) - https://bit.ly/4e1SxeV

📖 Things to read

• Perspective by Ellyse Perry - (29:22) - https://bit.ly/3PSMaCI
• Ellyse Perry’s children’s books - https://bit.ly/4e1TyDM
• Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman - (1:11:40) - https://bit.ly/437yxT9

📺Things to watch

• Carl Sagan’s Pale Blue Dot - (1:17:27) - https://bit.ly/3PSPKNa

🏆Competitions to enter

• Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema Gold Class Double Pass - https://bit.ly/3S0E0Zr

🎟️Things to buy tickets to

• Imperfects LIVE at the Balwyn Cinema - https://bit.ly/4vq9JSr

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