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The Foster Friendly Podcast

The Foster Friendly Podcast

By: Courtney Williams Brian Mavis Travis Vangsnes
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Welcome to The Foster Friendly Podcast. We’re bringing foster care closer to home by sharing stories from the front lines. We're talking with former foster youth, foster parents and others who are finding unique and powerful ways to dramatically improve the experiences and outcomes for kids in foster care. The Foster Friendly podcast is brought to you by America’s Kids Belong, a nonprofit that helps kids in foster care find belonging in both family and community.© America's Kids Belong, 2024 Economics Management Management & Leadership Parenting & Families Relationships
Episodes
  • Keeping it Real: What Every Foster Parent Needs to Know with Dr. John DeGarmo and Jen Lilley
    May 27 2026

    In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, host Brian Mavis speaks with Dr. John DiGarmo and Jen Lilley about their experiences in foster care and advocacy. They discuss their personal journeys, the challenges faced in the foster care system, and the importance of community support. The conversation also highlights their upcoming book, 'Called to Foster,' which aims to provide an honest guide for those considering fostering.

    The episode emphasizes the need for awareness and advocacy in the foster care system, as well as the emotional and practical realities of fostering children in crisis. The discussion also touches on the fears potential foster parents may have, the significance of community, and the transformative experiences that come from loving and caring for children in need.

    Pickup a copy of their book "Called to Foster?: An Honest Guide to Getting Started"

    https://a.co/d/0e6BFfwp

    Dr. John DeGarmo's website: Foster Care Institute
    https://www.drjohndegarmofostercare.com/

    Jen Lilley's website:
    https://www.jenlilley.com/

    Takeaways

    • Foster care is a unique lifestyle full of sacrifices.
    • Advocacy for foster children is crucial, especially during crises.
    • Personal experiences shape the understanding of foster care.
    • Community support is essential for foster parents.
    • Awareness can lead to increased involvement in foster care.
    • Not everyone is called to foster, but everyone can help.
    • Fostering requires a different parenting approach due to trauma.
    • The book 'Called to Foster' offers insights and guidance.
    • Foster care can be more challenging than anticipated.
    • Humor can be found in the toughest fostering moments. Fostering is both challenging and rewarding.
    • Family support is crucial in the foster care journey.
    • Taking an orientation class can provide valuable information.
    • Foster parents need to love children unconditionally.
    • Children in foster care need stability and structure.
    • Foster care can lead to personal growth and empathy.
    • Respite homes are essential for supporting foster families.
    • Fostering can positively impact biological children.
    • Every child deserves love and attention.
    • Foster care can strengthen one's faith and sense of purpose.

    Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.

    Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.

    Meet kids awaiting adoption.

    Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.

    Visit AmericasKidsBelong.org and click the donate button to help us change the outcomes of kids in foster care.

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    47 mins
  • Foster Parenting Success: Pro Tips and Practical Advice with Laura, Foster Parent Partner
    May 13 2026

    In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, hosts Courtney Williams and Travis Vangsnes welcome back Laura, the Foster Parent Partner, a well-known figure in the foster care community, to discuss her new book, 'First Time Fostering.' The conversation explores the complexities of foster care, the importance of realistic expectations for prospective foster parents, and the balance between honesty and recruitment. Laura shares insights on preparing for new placements, the unique challenges faced by single foster parents, and essential items that can aid in fostering.

    The episode concludes with a discussion on learning from mistakes in foster care, emphasizing the importance of adapting to the needs of children in care. The three also discuss the complexities of foster care, focusing on how to communicate with children about their circumstances, the impact of trauma on behavior, and the importance of resources and training for foster parents. They emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in dealing with children who have experienced trauma, and provide practical advice for those considering becoming foster parents.

    Pickup a copy of Laura's new book "First Time Fostering: A Practical Guide for Supporting Kids in Foster Care"

    https://a.co/d/0hKa3tjW


    Takeaways

    • Foster Care Awareness Month is a time to highlight the need for families.
    • Laura's book provides practical advice for new foster parents.
    • It's important to balance honesty with the need to recruit foster families.
    • Single foster parents play a crucial role in the foster care system.
    • Preparation for foster children includes both physical and emotional readiness.
    • Therapeutic toys can help children communicate and process their experiences.
    • Documentation and organization are key for single foster parents.
    • Convertible furniture can save money and space for foster families.
    • Sensory items are essential for helping children regulate their emotions.
    • Learning from past mistakes is vital for growth in foster care. Parents should answer children's questions about foster care age-appropriately.
    • Children may come into foster care with fears and misconceptions.
    • Books about foster care should be chosen carefully to avoid misleading outcomes.
    • Foster care is about stepping in to help families in need.
    • Conversations about foster care should evolve as situations change.
    • Trauma can manifest in various behaviors in children.
    • Empathy and compassion are crucial in supporting children in care.
    • Training and resources are essential for effective foster parenting.
    • There will always be an element of uncertainty in foster care.
    • Being open to learning and adapting is key to successful foster parenting.

    Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.

    Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.

    Meet kids awaiting adoption.

    Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.

    Visit AmericasKidsBelong.org and click the donate button to help us change the outcomes of kids in foster care.

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    46 mins
  • Innovating Child Welfare Systems with Felicia Curcuru
    Apr 29 2026

    In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, host Brian Mavis and co-host Courtney Williams welcome Felicia Curcuru, CEO and co-founder of Binti, a technology platform designed to streamline the foster care licensing process. Felicia shares her personal connection to the foster care system, stemming from her sister's challenging experience in adopting two children. This motivated her to create a solution that simplifies the licensing process for families and social workers alike.

    Felicia discusses the transformative impact of Binti on the child welfare system, emphasizing how their software solutions streamline processes for agencies and improve outcomes for children. Binti currently serves over 550 agencies across 36 states, significantly improving the efficiency of family approvals and reducing the administrative burden on social workers.


    Binti functions like TurboTax for foster and adoptive families, allowing them to complete applications online, e-sign documents, and upload necessary paperwork. The platform also provides social workers with a user-friendly dashboard to track families' progress, manage background checks, and automate reminders. With measurable results showing a 30% increase in family approvals and an 18% reduction in processing time, Binti is making a significant impact in the child welfare sector.

    She emphasizes the importance of reducing the number of children in care and increasing family placements, aligning with federal initiatives. The conversation culminates in a discussion about the need for unconditional love and support for children in foster care, showcasing Binti's commitment to improving the foster care experience for both children and families.

    Learn more about Binti:
    https://binti.com/


    Takeaways

    • Binti serves over 550 agencies in 36 states.
    • The platform improves family approval rates by 30% and reduces processing time by 18%.
    • Felicia's motivation stemmed from her sister's difficult adoption experience.
    • Binti automates administrative tasks for social workers, allowing them to focus on family engagement.
    • AI is used to streamline processes without making decisions about families. Agencies using Binti are 18% faster on average.
    • Binti allows for paper applications to accommodate non-tech-savvy families.
    • The goal is to reduce the number of children in care while increasing family placements.
    • Binti's software aims to streamline processes for social workers and improve outcomes for children.
    • Unconditional love and support are essential for children in foster care.

    Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.

    Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.

    Meet kids awaiting adoption.

    Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.

    Visit AmericasKidsBelong.org and click the donate button to help us change the outcomes of kids in foster care.

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    43 mins
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