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The CONVOS Podcast with Fred T. Williams

The CONVOS Podcast with Fred T. Williams

By: Fred T. Williams
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The CONVOS Podcast with Fred T. Williams is where real life meets real truth. Honest conversations. Practical wisdom. No surface talk. Each episode tackles the conversations people avoid talking about but desperately need, love, relationships, healing, faith, purpose, discipline, growth, and becoming who God created you to be. This is where Scripture meets strategy. Where faith meets real life. Where healing begins with honesty. Nothing watered down. Nothing fake. Nothing off limits. Fred is a certified life coach, author, entrepreneur, and spiritual architect. Connect at fredtwilliams.comFred T. Williams Social Sciences
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  • Bonus: Facing Grief Pt. 1

    Bonus: Facing Grief Pt. 1
    Jun 19 2026
    This episode is dedicated to the memories of Alberta Williams (11/11/1954 - 06/19/1999), and Caroline Smith (06/20/1964 - 09/05/2021). In this episode, Fred T. Williams openly shares his 27-year journey of grief and loss following his mother’s passing, alongside insights from grief counselor Chaz’ara Melody. This honest dialogue explores the complexities of mourning, healing, and finding resilience after years of emotional struggle.Key Topics:- Fred’s reflections on the 27-year journey of grieving his mother and how it shapes his current life.- The importance of facing grief directly rather than avoiding it, and the stages of grief he has experienced.- The significance of memory, legacy, and the promise to leave a meaningful impact in honor of loved ones.- The complex emotions surrounding the anniversary of loss and the ongoing process of healing.- Practical advice on grieving one day at a time—using the metaphor of carrying a backpack of rocks to illustrate resilience.- The impact of community, support systems, and sharing openly about grief to foster healing.- How grief influences identity, relationships, and the fear of replacing loved ones.- The role faith, the Holy Spirit, and personal vulnerability play in navigating profound loss.Chaz'ara Melody's Instagram: https://instagram.com/chazaramelody Chaz'ara's Website https://www.chazaramelody.comListen to this episode on the go!YouTube: https://youtube.com/@fredtwilliamsGet my LATEST book "How To Change Your Energy" today! https://a.co/d/0aBAEEUfFollow Fred!Instagram: / fredtwilliams TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fredtwilliams...Facebook: / fredtwilliams 💻 Website: https://fredtwilliams.com📲 For weekly inspiration text SHIFT to +1-833-813-6514If you or someone you now is dealing with grief, and are in need of immediate assistance, please call 1-800-662-4357. Please also contact Chaz'ara Melody to utilize her services also.00:01 - Introduction and Fred’s personal story of grief and loss00:30 - Fred’s reflection on his mother’s passing on June 19 and the importance of candid conversations01:01 - The cultural silence around grief in church and community02:04 - Fred’s emotional journey over the years and the importance of giving space to grief02:53 - Strategies for managing grief during anniversaries and difficult emotional moments05:08 - The significance of understanding grief as a unique process for everyone06:15 - The power and pain of memory and the longing for loved ones07:12 - Sharing childhood memories of Fred’s mother and her affirmations09:30 - Challenges of facing grief head-on; stages of grief revisited12:20 - How shifting environments impact grief processing13:44 - The impact of societal and cultural expectations on grief16:35 - The importance of grief being acknowledged and shared publicly20:01 - The impact of faith and community support in the healing journey26:34 - The balance of emotions—happiness and sadness coexisting32:24 - The transformative power of legacy and the importance of leaving a meaningful mark39:34 - Processing grief after the loss of a parent and redefining identity45:52 - Ways to face grief in small steps—minute, hour, and day-focused coping54:23 - The metaphor of carrying a backpack of rocks—building strength while enduring grief58:22 - Honoring memories without succumbing to depression62:14 - The importance of creating space to be vulnerable and authentic65:01 - Final encouragement for those grieving and resources for support67:37 - Closing thoughts on the lifelong journey of healing and self-discovery
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • You Lost Yourself Trying to Be Loved

    You Lost Yourself Trying to Be Loved
    Jun 9 2026

    Ever felt like you’ve given so much in the name of love that you hardly recognize yourself anymore? This episode cuts through the surface and exposes the often-overlooked emotional toll of losing your identity to relationships—romantic, familial, even friendships. Fred Williams teams up with UK-based therapist Chaz'ara Melody to unpack the real reasons behind losing yourself—and most importantly, how you can find your way back. If you’ve ever stayed silent to keep the peace, sacrificed your boundaries, or ignored your non-negotiables, this episode is your wake-up call to reclaim your power and peace.You’ll discover: - The dangerous trap of seeking fulfillment through others instead of within - The key red flags that signal you’re losing yourself in a relationship - How to set healthy boundaries and clearly define your non-negotiables - Practical strategies for rediscovering your identity outside of external validation - The vital role of self-awareness, accountability, and emotional intelligence in healing and growth - Why healing often involves facing parts of yourself you’d rather avoid—and how to do it safelyChaz'ara Melody's Instagram https://instagram.com/chazaramelodyChaz'ara's Website https://www.chazaramelody.comListen to this episode on the go!🎥 YouTube: https://youtube.com/@fredtwilliamsGet my LATEST book "How To Change Your Energy" today! https://a.co/d/0aBAEEUfFollow Fred!Instagram: https://instagram.com/fredtwilliamsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@fredtwilliams?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcFacebook: https://facebook.com/fredtwilliams💻 Website: https://fredtwilliams.com📲 For weekly inspiration text SHIFT to 833-813-65140:05 Introduction with Fred and Chaz’ara0:33 Losing yourself in love1:03 Importance of being whole1:46 Chaz’ara’s background2:23 Healing and self-awareness3:12 Therapy Spot podcast5:00 Identity loss in relationships5:42 Entering relationships whole6:39 Knowing oneself9:20 Self-sacrifice and expectations10:21 Validation vs. authenticity11:18 Recognizing red flags12:26 Maintaining identity13:37 Impact of familial roles14:00 Navigating life changes15:37 Self-investment and growth16:27 Authenticity in relationships17:24 Protecting peace18:36 Grief and self-discovery19:32 Self-awareness and love20:32 Responsibility in patterns22:32 Self-discovery post-divorce25:11 Ministry and priorities28:52 Balancing service and marriage31:19 Healthy family dynamics35:42 Love languages and seasons36:37 Emotional connection42:38 Effective communication45:36 Non-negotiables and dialogue50:02 Guardrails and peace55:00 Seasons and growth58:57 Surrender and rescue
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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • Let's Stop Faking It

    Let's Stop Faking It
    Jun 2 2026

    Most of us are physically moving forward but stuck in the same mental and emotional patterns — and we don't even realize it. Fred T. Williams exposes the dangerous cycle of surface-level conversations, fake humility, and toxic habits that keep us from genuine growth. If you're tired of pretending to be fine while inside you're exhausted, confused, or just plain stuck, this episode is your wake-up call.


    Fred dives deep into the real reasons why we avoid honesty — exposing how truth tests, confronts, and ultimately removes excuses that keep us trapped. You’ll discover how false humility and toxic relationships stunt your progress, and why surrounding yourself with yes men might be your biggest obstacle. Learn the framework for honest communication that leads to real transformation, and why embracing discomfort is actually the shortcut to growth.


    This episode breaks down practical tactics—including how to have tough conversations with loved ones, challenge your habits, and take one actionable step to move forward today. Fred shares how to recognize toxicity, handle correction with humility, and ditch the “that’s just the way I am” mentality that blocks your success. If you're serious about change, this is the blueprint for stopping the performance and starting the real work.


    Perfect for anyone seeking authentic self-improvement, healthier relationships, or a breakthrough in their personal growth journey. Whether you’re feeling stuck professionally, relationally, or spiritually, Fred’s insights will motivate you to drop the mask, face your truth, and take decisive action. Because nothing changes until you do.


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    In this episode:


    • Fred emphasizes that most people talk about growth but avoid true transformation
    • The misconception that surface conversations and “polished” appearances equate to real progress
    • Why true humility is silent and unpretentious, unlike false humility that seeks recognition
    • The three reasons people avoid truth: exposes, confronts, removes excuses
    • Proverbs 27:6 — real friends tell the truth, fake friends protect dysfunction
    • The importance of surrounding yourself with challenging, honest individuals
    • How to confront habits that keep you stuck and choose change over comfort
    • Practical advice: tell yourself the truth about where you're stuck, invite real conversations, and make one small change
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    35 mins
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