• Still Fun, Just Sober: Fun Without Alcohol
    May 1 2026

    Rich & Ben, The Sober Men are into double figures, welcome to Episode 10!

    Good vibes all round this week, Ben celebrates 3 years sober & can’t help but share how sobriety has transformed his life, plus the impact on his metal health & clarity.

    In the heart of the episode, Rich & Ben discuss how they are still fun sober, in fact more so, & Rich poses the question, did we actually have fun or were we chasing fun, when drinking? They continue to debunk some myths about having fun without alcohol, & highlight how rewiring your brain can lead to big smiles without the booze. And don’t even mention the joy of getting into bed sober.

    Actor, Tom Holland is “in the frame”, check out his new 0% beer, BERO. Rich has fallen in love with fish finger sandwiches (with mayo AND ketchup!) & Ben decides he’s more Paul Daniels than David Copperfield. We’ll leave it there.

    Rich & Ben, The Sober Men: The Podcast. Let’s do this!

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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    59 mins
  • Learning To Like Myself, Sober
    Apr 24 2026

    It’s episode 9 already & Rich is basking in the Swiss sunshine!

    This week, Rich & Ben discuss the impact of alcohol on self-esteem & mental health. Plus, as always, The Sober Men offer some practical suggestions to rebuild self-love in sobriety.

    They dive into the cycle of shame & self-hatred they endured during their drinking days & how they broke that cycle & started to make friends with themselves again.

    Superstar DJ, Calvin Harris in “in the frame”, Ben has befriended a cat & is loving sober family occasions whilst Rich is enjoying ALL the chocolate in Zurich & appreciating the beautiful city, but this time sober.

    Rich & Ben, The Sober Men. Two sober mates, one podcast, zero hangovers.

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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    58 mins
  • Loneliness in Sobriety
    Apr 17 2026

    Pod time, boom! This week, Rich & Ben discuss loneliness in sobriety, sharing how desperately lonely & sad they felt in their darkest days & how they overcame these lows to live a happier, sober life.


    The Sober Men give some practical steps to combat loneliness whilst maintaining sobriety & how building connections & a routine can be so helpful in recovery.


    Ben has had a haircut, no more Worzel Gummindge & reveals his new found love of slippers, whilst Rich makes a surprise new friend at the Travelodge & dives into some DIY at home.


    Ex footballer, Paul Merson is “in the frame”, as humble as they come & 7 years sober. Plus, Ben surprises Rich with a moving message from his sister.



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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • The 12 Steps: What They Are, What They Aren't
    Apr 10 2026

    Rich & Ben are back for Episode 7 & it’s time for some myth-busting. Ever wondered what Alcoholics Anonymous really is? And could it work for you?

    In this week’s episode, The Sober Men explore the 12 Steps of recovery, with Rich guiding Ben through the history of AA & plus the process & benefits of the 12 Step programme.

    Each step has given Rich building blocks to a better life & personal growth, which Ben can identify with, as he chooses to navigate his sobriety through a different route.

    And as always, Rich & Ben’s recovery stories meet in the middle, leading to clarity, self-improvement & happiness.

    Harry Potter star, Daniel Radcliffe is “in the frame”, such pressure at a young age, Rich is rocking the black T, think Tom Cruise meets Ross Kemp & Ben becomes Handy Andy, whilst yearning for a spray or two of his old favourite, Hai Karate.

    Rich & Ben, The Sober Men: The Podcast. Two mates who got sober & got happy. Let’s go!

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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    1 hr
  • Mental Health in Sobriety: Finding Calm After Alcohol
    Apr 3 2026

    It’s Episode 6, let’s get it on! This week, Rich & Ben explore the connection between mental health & sobriety. Whether you’re newly sober, sober-curious or continuing your recovery journey, this episode offers a gentle, grounded perspective on mental wellbeing without alcohol or drugs.

    Ben shares his mental health struggles whilst drinking & Rich offers some self-care tips for health & clarity, plus The Sober Men highlight the danger of struggling alone. Remember, it’s ok to say, “Mate, can we have a chat?”

    Rich reveals a love of Victoria Sponge, & Ben shares his line-dancing prowess. Comedian, Josh Widdicombe is “in the frame” & Rich & Ben are excited to launch their collaboration with Authentic Brew in “Drink of the Week”.

    Authentic Brew is a 100% Natural Functional Energy drink. No caffeine. No added sugar. Alcohol Free. Great for your Mind, Body & Soul.

    And Rich & Ben, The Sober Men: The Podcast listeners & viewers can enjoy 10% off Authentic Brew bundles. Simply DM the podcast on Instagram or Tik Tok, or email thesobermenpod@gmail.com for the exclusive Sober Men code. Then visit Authentic Brew - Functional Energy for Mind, Body and Soul


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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    46 mins
  • Life, Straight Up: Living Life on Life's Terms
    Mar 27 2026

    Rich and Ben, The Sober Men are back & this week discuss the impact of sobriety on handling life's challenges & living life on life's terms.


    And how Rich & Ben now embrace reality instead of rushing to the pub to cloud over life’s hurdles, the buzz they get in controlling reactions to life’s issues instead of the outcome & how dealing with the little things gives them peace.


    Plus, how their sobriety has helped them break the male stoic mould & let them talk about their feelings, allowing their emotional honesty & vulnerability to bring happiness.


    Actor, Jamie Lee Curtis is “in the frame”, can you help others? Ben is attacked mid M1 by tomato ketchup & Rich shares his new travel hack: take your own mattress.


    Let’s get talking. Rich & Ben: The Sober Men: The Podcast.

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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    54 mins
  • When Alcohol Leaves the Room: How work, family & friendships change when you stop drinking.
    Mar 20 2026

    Episode 4, let's do this! Rich & Ben, The Sober Men are back to discuss the impact of sobriety on relationships at home & at work.


    Ben shares with Rich how his sobriety helps him deal with tough conversations, head on with clarity & a remedy, & Rich opens up about the love & joy he has for his family now alcohol & drugs are out of the equation.


    Plus, as always, practical advice for those considering or maintaining sobriety.


    Rich & Ben also discuss the importance of honesty building confidence in the workplace, & how bliss for Ben is now skipping the pub, with a 14” Pepperoni pizza.


    Actor, Craig Armstrong is “in the frame”, what a guy & if you’ve fallen in a puddle, Rich is your man. Ben also survives an odorous Park Run. Pass the roll on.


    Rich & Ben, The Sober Men: The Podcast. Two mates who got sober & got happy. Hop on board!


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    54 mins
  • Out, Out! Without the Alcohol
    Mar 13 2026

    The week's are flying & it's Episode 3 already. Rich & Ben discuss the impact of sobriety on their social lives & how they enjoy social events alcohol-free.

    The Sober Men share the joy of being authentic without that beer in your hand in social situations. Plus some coping strategies for dealing with peer pressure & tips for maintaining a fulfilling social life without alcohol. And their love of an evening at home on the sofa, with Match of the Day or Netflix on the gogglebox. Bliss.

    Actor, Samuel L Jackson is “in the frame’ this week, he’s 34 years sober, wow.

    Has Ben returned from a 10 day all inclusive Caribbean cruise & Rich is King of the Shackets.

    If it’s good enough for Ant & Dec, it’s good enough for Rich & Ben.

    Two mates. One Podcast. Zero hangovers. Boom!

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    Rich & Ben are not doctors or therapists, just two mates chatting about their own sobriety experiences. If you're struggling with alcohol or your mental health, please speak to a GP or a qualified professional.

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    35 mins