The Vicar - John 1958

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“The Longtime-Ago-Person is Probably Me”

When I sit down with John, I’m taken straight into a childhood that feels almost impossible now. He grew up in a vicarage on the edge of Dartmoor, the kind of place where a boy could walk out after breakfast, vanish for the entire day, and nobody thought to worry — partly because there wasn’t a phone to reach for. As we talk through his own mind map of longtime ago people, the memories return with astonishing clarity: the huge lawn and orchard, ponies on the moor, bikes as transport, and the absolute normality of knocking on a stranger’s door for water and maybe an apple.

Being a vicar’s son in a small Devon village gives the story a unique texture. Sundays meant church, whether he liked it or not, sitting among older parishioners while his dad — the most recognisable man in the community — did the work of keeping people connected. John reflects on faith, on the tension between everyday humanity and spiritual authority, and on how those early years shaped his sense of community, care and responsibility.

Then come the stories that make rural 1960s Britain feel wonderfully alive: open fires that smoked out the room, ice on the inside of the windows, hot water bottles, the post office that doubled as a sweet shop, returnable bottles swapped for treats, and the pub hatch where children bought sweets — or sometimes just knocked and ran. John talks about camping with his younger siblings in a farmer’s field, a whole day spent wandering in search of an osprey that never appeared, and a perfect culture clash when teenage him played Black Sabbath’s Paranoid to his vicar father just to see the reaction.

If you love British nostalgia, Dartmoor history, village life, or the bigger question of what childhood freedom does to a person, this episode will speak to you. Hit play, share it with someone who grew up pre‑mobile, and leave a review telling us what you miss most about the analogue days.

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Rhys 1963

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When I catch up with Rhys — or “The Count”, as he’s known on air — I’m taken straight back to 1976, when two twelve‑year‑olds (we are the two twelve-year-olds) walked into a school classroom and realised they were the entire class. From that moment, a friendship was built on shared trouble, fast laughs, and the kind of music discovery that rewires your brain for life.

I trace the soundtrack that shaped him: early punk, the Sex Pistols, The Jam, and those late‑night sessions with Radio Luxembourg under the pillow. We talk about the ritual of taping the Sunday chart, praying the DJ wouldn’t talk over the intro, and the thrill of buying your first record with pocket money. There are stories of Sid Vicious, chapel rebellion, and the gigs that still live in your chest decades later — from the emotional punch of Live Aid to festival moments that turn grown adults into emotional wrecks.

Then the conversation widens into real life: leaving school, scraping together work, joining the Merchant Navy, even getting deported from the US, before eventually building a long career in a trade that somehow keeps brushing up against pop culture. The biggest pivot is Monster Radio Lanzarote, where Rhys explains how a modern community station really works: no playlists, real presenters, giveaways, listener interactivity, and a commitment to local charities. It’s a brilliant reminder that radio is far from dead — it’s simply evolved.

If you love music podcasts, radio stories, 1970s and 1980s nostalgia, or honest conversations about how songs help us carry joy and loss, you’ll feel right at home here.

And if you’re listening, share it with someone who still remembers their first Walkman, and leave us a review with the one song you’d play to your younger self.

Bits & Bobs

• Sex Pistols
• Pistol - TV Mini Series
• The Jam
• Listen to The Count on Monster Radio as he counts down all the number ones from his birthday in April 1963 to the present day.
• George Thorogood - Get A Haircut
• https://monsterradio.tv
• Monster Radio App
• My Isle of Wight Festival 2013 Boomtown Rats

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Season 2 Epilogue — Longtime Ago People

Season Two brings me back to what I’ve always believed about memory — how it hides in music, in family stories, and in the everyday influence of people who shaped us long before we realised it. Looking back over these ten conversations, across places, eras and lives, I’m reminded again that who we are is never just about us.

This season has taken me from the Welsh Valleys to the Somme and far beyond, meeting people whose stories carry humour, heartbreak, courage and connection.

1. Russell talked about a life shaped by central Scotland — the divides, the love, the work, and the lessons that carried him forward.
2. David traced a path from oil rigs to Wall Street and Napa Valley, built on mentorship and sheer resilience.
3. Sean brought London family stories to life — disinheritance, laughter, and a surprising cheeky reveal after loss.
4. Ian shared a cross‑continental family history marked by childhood loss and an enterprising grandfather known as “Smuggling Jim.”
5. Rupert took us deep into David Bowie’s world — the personas, the albums, the cultural pull that shaped a generation.
6. Matt unravelled a century‑old mystery, honouring his great‑great uncle through research and a moving Royal Marines ceremony.
7. Sarah celebrated her Welsh roots, her family’s resilience, and her community‑driven life on the Isle of Wight.
8. Steve reflected on loyalty, hard work and the people who helped him build a family business from the ground up.
9. Lee walked us through a life lived in motion — Navy diving, African overland journeys, DJ nights and tribute‑band touring.
10. And Loz brought us back to a carefree Southampton childhood, and into an honest conversation about reinvention and mental health in adulthood.

If any of these stories remind you of someone — a parent, a friend, a teacher, a neighbour — tell them. Or tell someone about them. That’s how memory stays alive. Thank you

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