• 229. What Your Divorce Triggers Are Trying to Teach You
    Jun 15 2026
    Have you ever found yourself reacting in a way that surprised you and wondered, Why did I do that? Maybe you snapped at your ex during a co-parenting exchange. Maybe you became defensive with your kids. Maybe criticism hit harder than it should have, or seeing your ex move on reopened wounds you thought had already healed. What if the problem isn't your reaction? What if the real issue is the wound underneath it? In this week's episode, Jenn explores the powerful concept of healing the trigger, not just the reaction. Divorce has a way of exposing deeper hurts such as rejection, abandonment, shame, fear, insecurity, and the belief that we're somehow "not enough." When those wounds get touched, we react. But instead of responding with shame, what if those moments are actually invitations from God to heal? Jenn shares a personal experience that transformed the way she views repentance, agency, and emotional healing. Together, we'll explore why true repentance isn't just behavior modification. It's heart transformation. It's partnering with God to heal the deeper wounds that keep showing up in our relationships and reactions. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why your triggers are not proof that you're broken • How divorce exposes wounds that may have existed long before the divorce • The difference between changing behavior and healing the heart • Why repentance is one of God's greatest gifts • How curiosity creates healing while shame keeps us stuck • Practical questions to ask when you feel emotionally triggered • How to invite God into the healing process Psalm 51:10 reminds us, "Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me." A clean heart isn't a perfect heart. It's a healed heart. If you've ever wondered why you keep reacting the same way, this episode may help you uncover the deeper healing God is inviting you into. You are not ruined by your divorce. You are being refined through it. For additional support and resources, visit: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    20 mins
  • 228. My Church Leader Didn't Believe Me About the Betrayal
    Jun 8 2026
    Have you ever felt like your Church leader didn't believe you about the betrayal, abuse, addiction, or struggles happening inside your marriage? Maybe you finally found the courage to ask for help, only to feel dismissed, misunderstood, or unsupported in your decision to pursue divorce. If so, this episode is for you. In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Jenn discusses one of the most painful experiences many faithful Latter-day Saints face during divorce: when Church leaders don't fully understand what they're going through. This episode is not about criticizing bishops, stake presidents, or the Church. In fact, Jenn shares why she believes Church leaders are doing the very best they can as unpaid volunteers who often have limited information and no formal training in marriage counseling, abuse recovery, addiction, or divorce. Instead, this episode explores how to strengthen your faith when others don't understand your journey, why personal revelation matters, how to trust God when you feel alone, and how to move forward with faith instead of fear. In this episode, you'll learn: • Why Church leaders sometimes see situations differently than you do • How to separate faith in God from disappointment in people • Why personal revelation is critical during divorce • How to trust your relationship with God when others disagree with your decisions • How to avoid resentment and strengthen your spiritual confidence • Why faith and fear often exist together If you've ever wondered, "What do I do when my bishop doesn't support my decision?" or "How do I trust God when I feel completely misunderstood?" this episode will offer hope, perspective, and encouragement. Remember, your eternal destiny is not determined by the opinions of others. It is guided by a loving Heavenly Father who knows your heart, your circumstances, and your journey. For additional support, coaching, and resources, visit: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Until next time, keep seeking joy. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    21 mins
  • 227. The Difference Between Being Alone and Being Lonely After Divorce
    Jun 1 2026
    Have you ever felt completely alone after divorce… even when people are around you? In this deeply personal episode, we’re talking about the painful difference between loneliness and being alone after divorce. If you’ve been crying in your car, lying awake at 2 AM, feeling emotionally stuck, isolated, overwhelmed, or wondering if your life will ever feel normal again… this episode is for you. Divorce doesn’t just end a relationship. It can shake your confidence, identity, routines, faith, and hope for the future. But just because your marriage ended does NOT mean your life is over. In this episode, we discuss: • Why loneliness after divorce feels so overwhelming • The difference between loneliness and healing solitude • How fear and isolation keep people emotionally stuck • Why healing starts with movement, not motivation • How your response to divorce impacts your children and future relationships • What it looks like to intentionally rebuild your life after heartbreak • How to stop surviving and start living again If you’re ready to stop feeling trapped in pain and begin creating a life filled with peace, confidence, purpose, and joy, this conversation will speak directly to your heart. Ready to move forward with clarity and confidence? 👉 Book your Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns and want real guidance on healing, dating, and building a better future… this is your next step. Want more support? Download the Find the Joy App on my website for: • Exclusive content • Daily encouragement • Tools to help you navigate divorce • Direct access to ask me questions 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Subscribe for more content on LDS divorce, healing, faith, and relationships: New episodes every week to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace. And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    19 mins
  • 226. When Divorce Starts Affecting Your Kids’ Faith
    May 22 2026
    What happens when your divorce starts affecting your children’s faith? This is one of the deepest fears many Christian and Latter day Saint parents carry after divorce. Maybe your child is questioning God, pulling away from church, or wondering why Heavenly Father didn’t save your family. If you’ve ever worried that your divorce may damage your children spiritually, this episode is for you. In this heartfelt episode, Jenn talks about: • How divorce can impact children’s faith and trust in God • What NOT to do when kids start questioning spiritually • How to respond when children feel angry, confused, or disconnected • The power of emotional safety and authentic faith • Why your example matters more than perfection • How to help your children stay anchored to hope and the Gospel during difficult seasons Jenn also shares personal stories and practical encouragement to help you navigate these sacred and emotional conversations with your children. No matter what your family looks like right now, your divorce does NOT cancel God’s plan for your children. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need hope today. Ready to move forward with clarity and confidence? 👉 Book your Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns and want real guidance on healing, dating, and building a better future… this is your next step. Want more support? Download the Find the Joy App on my website for: • Exclusive content • Daily encouragement • Tools to help you navigate divorce • Direct access to ask me questions 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Subscribe for more content on LDS divorce, healing, faith, and relationships: New episodes every week to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace. And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    23 mins
  • 225. Is Divorce a Sin? God’s Law, Agency, and Choosing Truth Without Fear
    May 18 2026
    Is divorce a sin? What does God really think about divorce, agency, and staying in difficult marriages? In this deeply honest episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest fears many Christians and Latter day Saints wrestle with during divorce: “Am I disappointing God if I leave my marriage?” For years, many of us were taught that divorce should never be an option. But what happens when staying in a marriage begins destroying your emotional, spiritual, or mental wellbeing? What happens when fear, betrayal, disconnection, or dysfunction become the emotional climate of your home? In this episode, we explore: • What the phrase “God hates divorce” really means • The difference between sacrifice and self abandonment • Why agency matters in marriage • How fear and religious shame keep people stuck • Emotional adulthood vs emotional childhood • Patterns of betrayal, honesty, and accountability • How to approach divorce decisions with God instead of panic • Why divorce is painful, but not proof of spiritual failure • How to seek peace, truth, and discernment in difficult relationships This episode is not about encouraging divorce, and it’s not about condemning marriage. It’s about learning how to make honest, prayerful decisions with God while honoring truth, agency, and emotional health. If you’re navigating divorce, questioning your marriage, or trying to rebuild your faith after heartbreak, you are not alone. You can schedule a Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session You can also access the new Find the Joy App through Find the Joy with Jenn where you’ll find exclusive content, encouragement, discounts on courses and programs, and the opportunity to submit personal questions about your divorce situation for guidance and support. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need this conversation today. There is still joy ahead for you, my friend. 👉 Ready for deeper support? Join my Faith Filled Divorce coaching program where we work through things like this together in a safe, faith-centered space. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    21 mins
  • 224. How to Talk About Pornography in Dating Without Ruining the Relationship
    May 11 2026
    If you’ve been through divorce, the topic of pornography in dating can feel complicated, uncomfortable, and even a little scary. When do you bring it up? How do you ask without pushing someone away? And what do you do if it becomes part of your relationship again? In this episode, I’m walking you through how to have this conversation in a way that actually builds trust instead of creating fear, pressure, or disconnection. We’re going deeper than just talking about pornography. We’re looking at what it really represents in a relationship, how to approach it with honesty and emotional maturity, and how to navigate it in a healthy way if it shows up again after divorce. You’ll learn: • When to bring up the conversation in dating • What to say instead of asking “Do you watch porn?” • The difference between red flags and green flags • How to protect yourself without becoming guarded • What healthy boundaries actually look like • How to rebuild trust if this has been part of your past If this has impacted your marriage, your confidence, or your ability to trust again, this episode will give you clarity and a healthier way forward. 👉 FREE WORKSHOP: How to Find Peace in Divorce Without Losing Your Faith May 13 at 12pm MDT / 2pm EDT [Insert your registration link] 👉 Ready for deeper support? Join my Faith Filled Divorce coaching program where we work through things like this together in a safe, faith-centered space. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    18 mins
  • 223. Why Porn Isn’t the Real Problem in Your Marriage
    May 4 2026
    Pornography is one of the most painful and misunderstood issues affecting marriages today. But what if we’ve been approaching it the wrong way? In this episode, we’re having a different conversation. Not one that minimizes the impact of pornography, but one that goes deeper into what’s actually driving it… and why shame may be the very thing keeping people stuck. We’ll talk about how pornography can lead to broken trust, secrecy, and even betrayal in a relationship, and why those things matter deeply in a covenant marriage. But we’ll also explore how real healing becomes possible when we stop focusing only on behavior and start addressing what’s underneath. If you’ve ever felt hurt, confused, or not enough because of this issue… or if you’ve struggled with it yourself and felt trapped in a cycle you can’t seem to break… this episode will give you a new way to understand it. We also talk about how to begin healing, both individually and as a couple, and what it looks like to move forward in a healthy way, whether you’re married, single, or dating after divorce. There is a path forward. And it doesn’t start with shame. It starts with truth, accountability, and healing. 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward a different kind of freedom. 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly 🎯 Want deeper support? If you’re ready to take real steps forward, schedule a free session with me: 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    16 mins
  • 222. Dating After Divorce as a Christian… When Is It Right?
    Apr 27 2026
    How do you really know if you’re ready to date again after divorce… or if you’re just tired of being alone? This is one of the most common questions I get—and the truth is, most people get it wrong. Not because they don’t want a healthy relationship… but because they haven’t done the work that actually prepares them for one. In this episode, I’m walking you through what it truly looks like to be ready for another relationship after divorce—and why rushing this process often leads to repeating the same patterns with a different person. We’re talking about real healing. Not distractions. Not “I’m fine.” But the kind of healing that allows you to move forward without carrying the weight of your past into something new. I’ll also walk you through how to get spiritually grounded again, especially if your faith feels shaken after divorce, and why that foundation matters more than anything when it comes to future relationships. Then we’ll go deeper into what I call doing an “autopsy” on your marriage—learning from what worked, what didn’t, and taking ownership of your part so you don’t repeat the same mistakes. And finally, we’ll talk about creating a clear vision for your future—so you’re not looking for someone to complete your life, but someone who aligns with the life you’ve already built. This is how you stop settling. This is how you stop repeating patterns. This is how you prepare for something better… not just different. If you’re wondering whether you’re ready—or you want to be—this episode will give you clarity on exactly where you are and what to do next. And if you want help walking through this process, this is exactly what we do inside Faith Filled Divorce. You don’t have to figure it out alone. 👉 Learn more and take the next step here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session 💛 Ready for support? If you want help applying this to your situation, I’ve created a space just for you. 👉 Download the Find the Joy App: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com Inside, you’ll find: Tools to help you move forward Exclusive content And a place to ask me your questions directly 🎯 Want deeper support? If you’re ready to take real steps forward, schedule a free session with me: 👉 Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session And if you’re looking for faith-centered support through divorce, you can learn more about my Faith Filled Divorce program here: 👉 https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app so we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn
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    17 mins