In today's episode, we catch up on our slow week of migraines, birthdays, and a vampire‑themed party nobody ended up committing to. We get into deeper conversations about fear, death, and the dreams we’re sometimes scared to say out loud, before diving into the usual chaotic dilemmas, including a full pastor‑baby scandal. We also talk about the Klay Thompson and Megan Thee Stallion cheating drama, which inspired the title “The ‘He Has No Hoes’ Episode”, because now, I guess Klay really has no hoes.

At the end of the episode, we also share something special: Aanu's mum’s new book, Yorùbá Dídọ̀rùn, a beginner‑friendly guide to learning Yorùbá in a simple, accessible way. You can grab it here:🇬🇧 UK — https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0GWPG7T3F 🇺🇸 US — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GWPG7T3F 🇨🇦 Canada — https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B0GWPG7T3F

If you’re interested in the book or in joining her Yorùbá classes, you can reach out to us at theitsthatdeeppodcast@gmail.com.

We're glad you're here and hope you enjoy listening

~Aanu and Belle xoxo

Some people really know how to make their issues everybody else’s problem, and sometimes all you can do is sit back and say… girl, please. In this episode, we get into insecure energy, jealousy, mixed signals, people moving funny, and the subtle ways people tell on themselves without even realizing it. We talk about insecurity in friendships, attachment styles, projection, and what happens when people are bothered by something they refuse to admit.

If you’ve ever had to read the vibes, trust your instincts, or clock something that nobody else was saying out loud, this one is for you.

We're glad you're here, and we hope you enjoy listening.

~Aanu and Belle xoxo

In this episode, we talk about what happens when love doesn’t align with your standards, and why some people would rather stay and adjust their expectations than admit they’re settling.

From relationships where marriage isn’t even on the table, to changing yourself just to keep someone’s attention, we’re questioning how far is too far when it comes to love.

At what point does compromise become self-abandonment? And are you actually confused, or are you just avoiding what you already know?

We also get into the pressure to perform a version of yourself that isn’t real, and how easy it is to lose clarity when you’re more focused on being chosen than choosing for yourself- amongst so many other talking points.

We're glad you're here, and we hope you enjoy listening.