Most parents want their athlete to play college basketball.The problem? Many athletes say they want it too—but their daily habits tell a different story.In this episode of It's Just Different, Ashley Roberts sits down with longtime grassroots basketball coach Ed Durham to discuss the realities of youth basketball, recruiting, and player development in today's game.From coaching elite talent and navigating the AAU landscape to helping families understand what it actually takes to play at the next level, Ed shares unfiltered insight on the challenges facing athletes and parents today.The conversation explores the growing gap between expectations and reality, why honesty is missing from many recruiting conversations, and how the explosion of AAU teams has impacted player development. Ed also shares his perspective on the current state of Texas girls basketball and why accountability, commitment, and realistic goal-setting are more important than ever.The truth?Not every athlete needs to be a Division I player to have a successful basketball journey—but every athlete needs a plan, honest feedback, and a willingness to put in the work.This conversation dives into:• Why parents and athletes often have different goals• The disconnect between recruiting dreams and work ethic• How the transfer portal has changed recruiting opportunities• The impact of AAU expansion on player development• Why honesty matters in recruiting conversations• Challenges facing Texas girls basketball today• How families can make smarter decisions about teams, camps, and training

About the GuestEd Durham is a veteran grassroots basketball coach with decades of experience developing athletes at multiple levels of the game. Known for helping develop high-level talent, including NBA standout Malik Monk, Durham has built a reputation for honest evaluations, player development, and accountability. Through his work in AAU basketball and youth sports, he has become a trusted voice for families navigating recruiting, development, and the changing landscape of basketball.Key Takeaways• Talent alone is not enough—work ethic must match ambition• Honest evaluations help athletes find the right opportunities• The transfer portal has created new recruiting challenges and opportunities• Development should come before exposure• Parents play a major role in setting realistic expectations• The growth of AAU basketball has changed the recruiting landscape• Accountability is still one of the biggest predictors of successResources for Basketball ParentsJoin the Basketball Parent Community:https://www.ashleynroberts.com/communityShop DIFFERENT merch (Use code Podcast for 15% off):https://itsjustdifferentapparel.comKeep in Touch

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Former pro player and current University of Texas at Arlington assistant coach Jamal Branch joins Ashley Roberts on the It’s Just Different Podcast to talk about the realities of youth basketball, AAU culture, recruiting, parenting, and player development.

From being the No. 1 player in the country to playing for the Lakers G League team and now coaching at the college level, Jamal shares lessons from every stage of the game. The conversation dives into the transfer portal’s impact on recruiting, the pressures young athletes face today, and why failure is necessary for long-term growth.

If you're a parent, coach, athlete, or someone navigating the basketball world, this episode offers honest insight into what actually matters when building a successful basketball journey.

About the Guest

Jamal Branch is a former professional basketball player and current assistant coach at University of Texas at Arlington. Once ranked the No. 1 player in the country, Jamal played professionally with the Lakers G League organization and has built a strong reputation in player development, recruiting, and mentorship through his work in high school, AAU, and college basketball.

About the Host

Ashley Roberts is the host of the It’s Just Different Podcast and a former junior college basketball player who transferred to the University of Texas.

As a basketball consultant, speaker, and founder of the Different Community, Ashley helps parents confidently navigate their athlete’s basketball journey with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Episode Summary

Ashley sits down with Jamal Branch for a deep conversation about the current state of basketball development and recruiting. Jamal shares how the game has evolved from his playing days to today’s social media-driven basketball culture and explains why many young athletes struggle with adversity.

The episode explores the realities of AAU basketball, the growing influence of the transfer portal, and how parents can better support their children through the recruiting process. Jamal also reflects on his own journey as a player and coach, emphasizing the value of patience, relationships, accountability, and resilience.

Throughout the discussion, listeners gain practical insight into what coaches truly look for, how athletes can separate themselves, and why personal growth off the court matters just as much as talent on it.

Key Takeaways

- Why failure is necessary for athlete development

- The biggest challenges facing youth basketball today

- How the transfer portal is impacting recruiting opportunities

- Why relationships matter in basketball and beyond

- The role parents should play during recruitment

- How social media can distract young athletes from development

- What coaches value most in players today

Resources for Basketball Parents

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Basketball recruiting has changed — and for most athletes, the old approach no longer works.In this episode of It’s Just Different, Ashley Roberts breaks down the reality of today’s college basketball recruiting landscape and gives practical advice for athletes and parents trying to navigate it.

From social media strategy and camp selection to understanding the transfer portal and communicating with coaches, this episode is packed with insight for players who are serious about getting recruited.Ashley explains why visibility matters more than ever, how athletes can stand out even if they aren’t ranked nationally, and what families should actually focus on during the recruiting process. Whether you’re a player trying to earn opportunities or a parent looking for guidance, this conversation offers a realistic look at what recruiting looks like today.

About the Host

Ashley Roberts is the host of the It’s Just Different Podcast and a former junior college basketball player who transferred to the University of Texas. As a basketball consultant, speaker, and founder of the Different Community, Ashley helps parents confidently navigate their athlete’s basketball journey with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

In This Episode

- Why recruiting has changed because of the transfer portal

- How non-top 100 athletes can still get recruited

- The role social media plays in exposure

- What camps are actually worth attending

- Common mistakes families make during recruiting

- How to communicate with college coaches effectively

- Why finding the right fit matters more than chasing status

Key Takeaways

- Exposure alone is not enough anymore

- Athletes must actively market themselves

- Strategic camp selection can make a major difference

- Social media should be used intentionally

- Families need realistic expectations during recruitment

- Relationships and communication matter more than ever

Resources for Basketball Parents

Join the Basketball Parent Community:

https://www.ashleynroberts.com/community

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https://itsjustdifferentapparel.com/?utm_source=its-just-different-podcast&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=podcast-traffic

Keep in Touch

Ashley: https://www.instagram.com/_thisisashleyr