Is the 11+ right for every child? And are parents preparing for it in the right way?

In this episode of Unblur the Path, Lakshmi Seth speaks with experienced 11+ tutor Deepa Kirpalani about the grammar school 11+ journey.

Deepa explains why the 11+ is not only an exam for children, but also a process that requires parents to be informed, realistic and emotionally prepared. From choosing the right schools to understanding catchment areas, consortiums, tutors, mock exams and exam formats, this conversation gives parents a clear roadmap through the grammar school process.

We discuss when preparation should begin, what groundwork children can build from Year 3, how to choose target schools, why mock scores should be treated as indicators rather than final predictions, and how parents can support their child without turning the journey into unnecessary pressure.

Deepa also shares a powerful reminder: children may forget their mock scores, but they will remember how their parents supported them throughout the journey.

In the next part of this conversation, we will discuss the independent school process in more detail, including applications, exams, interviews and results.

A practical episode for parents beginning—or already navigating—the 11+ journey.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

00:19 Is the 11+ Right for Every Child?

02:12 When Should 11+ Preparation Begin?

05:42 Should Every Child Take the 11+?

07:27 Grammar, Independent and Super-Selective Schools

11:01 Catchment Areas and Consortiums Explained

16:45 Common Mistakes Parents Make

19:29 How to Choose the Right 11+ Tutor

21:04 How Many Schools Should Parents Apply To?

25:13 School Reputation vs the Right Fit

32:55 Making the 11+ Journey Less Stressful

40:18 Subjects, Online Resources and Exam Formats

43:43 Mock Exams and Time Management

50:50 Preparing for Different Grammar School Exams

54:45 Henrietta Barnett and QE Boys Explained

59:27 Managing the Wait for Results

1:03:56 CAF Form and School Ranking

1:06:01 National Offer Day and Next Steps

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