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Your vacation shouldn’t leave you more tired than your job. We dig into why so many trips feel rushed even when you “did everything right,” and the answer isn’t hustling harder or planning tighter. It’s choosing a different travel style. We call it the Extended Getaway: a three to six week trip designed to be realistic, affordable, and actually restorative.

We walk through the tradeoffs that make short vacations stressful: losing days to airports and check-ins, living out of a suitcase, and trying to cram too many destinations into a tiny window. We also share why we’re cautious about packaged tours, including a story where a simple day trip turned into hours of waiting and barely any time in the place we came to see. From there, we shift to what works better: fewer bases, more flexibility, and a rhythm that leaves room for culture instead of just landmarks.

To make it concrete, we tell the story of our first extended getaway in Italy, from renting an apartment in Florence to the kind of unplanned night in Venice you never could have scheduled. Then we break down a month in Panama City, Panama with real budget travel numbers: a condo with a kitchen, laundry, and a view for under $1,200, cheap rideshares, local mercados, and an average spend of about $100 a day for everything. Along the way we share practical long vacation planning tips like “zero days,” packing light, and building in adjustment time so the trip feels livable.

Subscribe for more travel style guidance, share this with a friend who always overpacks the itinerary, and if the extended getaway sounds like your kind of slow travel, leave us a review and tell us where you’d spend your first three to six weeks.

And if you want to go deeper, you can check out my book, "Wherever We May Roam, Finding Your Travel Style", where I walk through all of this in more detail. You can search for it on Amazon in Kindle, Paperback, and Audiobook, or just use the link on our podcast page. If you have any questions, a topic you would like discussed, or would like to be on our show, email us at jim@jimsantosbooks.com.

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