Rabbi Yisroel Bernath was held at gunpoint at 15 by an antisemite. He spent 5 years in a hidden depression. Then he wrote a book on forgiving the unforgivable.

In Episode 13 of CTTP BarberTalk, Isaac Miracles and Dani The Barber sit down with Rabbi Yisroel Bernath — Montreal's "Love Rabbi," Chabad shaliach in NDG, matchmaker behind 200+ marriages, certified wine sommelier, and author of THE FORGIVENESS EXPERIMENT.

What started as a conversation about kosher fades and Mordecai's barber turned into the most honest two hours we've recorded.

We get into:

— The Karpman Drama Triangle and why most of us are stuck in it

— Why Rabbi Bernath says the Jewish people need to stop playing victim

— Held at gunpoint in Chicago at 15: "Hitler should have finished you off" — The 5-year depression nobody knew about

— Why "God is not your savior" is a Jewish idea, not a heretical one

— Christians believe in saviors. Jews believe in redemption.

— Loud and proud post-October 7

— and what to do with the haters

— The Forgiveness Experiment: the method he used on himself

— 18 years cowboying out of the Chabad box in NDG

— Mashiach is the work of your own hands This one's heavy. It's also necessary.

▼ CHAPTERS (timestamps to verify on upload)

0:00 Cold open — kosher fades, Mordecai's barber, why men talk in chairs

8:00 Rabbi Bernath, becoming religious, and the haircut trauma

18:00 The Drama Triangle: victim, perpetrator, hero

33:00 "We've spent billions on Holocaust museums. Has it worked?" 45:00 Loud and proud — Hanukkah after the Bondi attack

55:00 NDG: cowboying out of the Chabad box

1:10:00 The Love Rabbi: 200 marriages, the CBC documentary, kosher wine

1:25:00 Bridging worlds — Isaac's music journey

1:40:00 The 5 years of hidden depression

1:55:00 Held at gunpoint at 15: the Chicago hate crime

2:05:00 The Forgiveness Experiment — witnessing, the letter you'll never send

2:15:00 "God is not your savior" — what it actually means

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