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Sober & Lit Podcast

Sober & Lit Podcast

By: Susan Larkin & Ruby Williams
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Are you worried you might be drinking too much? If you’ve tried cutting back your drinking, but can’t imagine your life without wine? This podcast is for you.


Sober & Lit is the podcast for women in midlife who want encouragement, support, and real strategies to live their best life without alcohol. Whether you identify as a gray area drinker, a daily drinker, are exploring how to stop drinking, or are wondering how to know if you even have a drinking problem, this show offers practical tools and honest conversations. In each episode we answer real listeners’ questions about how to stop drinking and how to stay stopped. With sober stories, empowering insights, and practical tips and tactics for living sober with mindfulness, confidence, and joy. If you're ready to explore an alcohol-free lifestyle and step into your most vibrant, “lit” life you're in the right place.


This podcast is for you if you’ve ever asked:

Why can’t I drink like everyone else?

Why do I drink more than I want to?

I had weight loss surgery and why am I drinking every day now?

What is a gray area drinker?

Why can’t I stop drinking once I start?

How can I drink less during stressful times (holidays, divorce, empty nest, grief)

Is it possible to enjoy life without alcohol?

How do I cut back without quitting completely?

What’s the first step to changing my drinking?

How much alcohol is too much for a woman my age?


Every episode ends with how we and our guests feel lit with practices that support your mental health, optimizes your fitness goals and enhances personal growth. If you’re sober-curious, or alcohol-free and ready for your next amazing chapter in life, this podcast is your weekly dose of inspiration, tools, real talk, and some laughs!


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Episodes
  • Why High-Achieving Women Quit Drinking with Sue Willoughby / EP 117
    Apr 7 2026

    Okay… quick real talk, friend:

    What if burnout isn’t the problem… it’s the wake-up call?

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, we sit down with Sue Willoughby… equus coach, entrepreneur, and total midlife badass… who shares how she went from burnout, overachieving, and emotional exhaustion… to a life that actually feels aligned, powerful, and free.

    We talk about:
    • “normal” drinking that isn’t working anymore
    • high-achieving women feeling stuck
    • and the question…
    is this really it?

    And yes… 🐎 horses
    • they mirror your truth
    • they reconnect you to your power

    This episode is full of wisdom, practical insights, and inspiration for anyone ready to rewrite their story, embrace change, and live boldly alcohol-free. Press play.

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    Guest Resources for Sue Willoughby-
    Website: https://www.willoughbycoaching.com/
    Podcast: https://www.midlifebadasswomen.com/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/willoughbycoaching/⁠⁠
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sue_willoughby/⁠⁠

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/contact
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    42 mins
  • My Drinking Isn't That Bad / EP 116
    Mar 31 2026

    What if the thought keeping you stuck… sounds totally normal?

    “My drinking isn’t that bad.”

    We hear this all the time. Maybe you’ve said it too.

    But what if that one thought is the thing quietly keeping you…
    • tired
    • stuck
    • not quite living at your full potential

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, we go there...gently, honestly, no shame.

    We talk about:
    • the gray area most women live in
    • the comparison trap (“at least I’m not that bad…”)
    • those sneaky permission-giving thoughts
    • why you don’t need rock bottom to change
    how to get curious instead of critical

    And a few real questions for you…
    ➡️ Is alcohol actually working for you anymore?
    ➡️ Or have you just learned to live with it?

    This isn’t about labels. This isn’t about perfection.
    It’s about feeling better. Sleeping better. Living more… lit.

    🧡 And we’d love your support — vote for us in the Sans Bar Best Podcast awards!
    Be sure to vote for Sober & Lit under the Best Podcast category. Your vote truly means the world to us.
    https://www.thesansbar.com/sba-2026-awards-finalists

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/contact
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    25 mins
  • Sober Courage Meets Cold Joy with Libby DeLana / EP 115
    Mar 24 2026

    Cold water. Big feelings. Real joy.

    In this episode of Sober & Lit, we sit down with Libby DeLana, author of Cold Joy, who shares how something as simple as stepping into cold water helped her move through loss, rebuild herself, and feel truly alive again.

    We talk about the surprising parallels between cold plunging and sobriety…
    why community changes everything…
    and what happens when you stop numbing and start feeling.

    What if discomfort isn’t something to avoid but something that actually brings you back to life?

    This conversation might just shift the way you think about growth… and what you’re capable of.

    If you’re ready to feel more alive... this one’s for you. Let's dive into the cold water!

    Guest Resources for Libby DeLana-
    Website: http://thiscoldjoy.com
    Instagram: @thiscoldjoy
    This Morning Walk Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-morning-walk/id1616844895
    REI Podcast episode: https://www.rei.com/blog/podcasts/walking-cold-plunging-as-a-meditative-practice-with-libby-delana

    We Love Hearing From You

    Don't forget to follow and subscribe and leave a review! It helps to get the word out that living sober is lit!

    Listeners have said that our podcast has helped them get alcohol free!
    Join our private community!

    Connect with the Podcast Hosts:
    Susan Larkin Coaching https://www.susanlarkincoaching.com/contact
    Ruby Williams at Freedom Renegade Coaching https://www.freedomrenegadecoaching.com/

    Follow Susan: @drinklesswithsusan
    Follow Ruby: @rubywilliamscoaching

    It is strongly recommended that you seek professional advice regarding your health before attempting to take a break from alcohol. The creators, hosts, and producers of the The Feel Lit Alcohol Free podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, or psychological advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any resource or communication on behalf of the podcast or otherwise to be a substitute for such.

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    43 mins
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