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Decisions, Decisions

Decisions, Decisions

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Summary

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.

From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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Episodes
  • Selective Ignorance: Ep. 62 | Breakups, Bending & Broke America feat. Jamila Bell
    May 5 2026

    n this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, headline king Jason “Jah” Lee, and special guest Jamila Bell as they blend NBA playoff predictions, celebrity relationships, and cultural commentary into a layered and entertaining conversation that moves from sports to global culture to real-life relationship patterns. The episode kicks off with Mandi's excursion to Ghana and expands to a deeper conversation around carnival culture in Ghana, colorism, and the gap between expectation and reality when traveling abroad [ 02:13] [ 14:26 ]. The crew continues with honest reflections on travel preferences and cultural experiences [ 20:55 ], then pivots into a sharp take on Cinco de Mayo and cultural appropriation [ 31:01 ], followed by more NBA playoff breakdowns and second-round analysis [ 32:22 ]. From there, the discussion expands into legacy conversations around Ja Morant and Karl Malone [ 40:56 ], before diving into the headline relationship between Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson, unpacking cheating, accountability, and dating dynamics in the public eye [ 44:10 ][ 46:58 ].

    As the episode progresses, the hosts explore patterns in modern relationships, the illusion of change, and the impact of social media on personal decision-making [ 51:00 ][ 55:05 ], while also addressing how people repeatedly choose the same type of partners and navigate non-monogamy, loyalty, and public scrutiny [ 01:00:59 ][ 01:05:11 ]. The conversation then broadens into accountability for public figures during personal scandals [ 01:09:59 ] and the recurring patterns seen in celebrity dating culture [ 01:22:10 ], before taking a more serious turn into discussions about abuse, exploitation, and the darker side of fame [ 01:29:09 ]. Closing out, the crew zooms out to examine capitalism, class disparities, and the illusion of the American Dream [ 01:41:09 ][ 01:52:03 ], delivering a conversation that’s equal parts humorous, reflective, and socially aware—tying together sports, culture, and real-life relationship lessons in a way that feels both current and necessary.

    No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!

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    2 hrs and 3 mins
  • EP 471: Men Don’t Want To Be Friends (feat. Azar)
    May 4 2026

    This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Azar Farideh from Truth After Dark for a candid conversation about whether men and women can truly be platonic friends, as they debate lacking possessiveness, having male friends, and the idea that men would cross the line if given the opportunity while sharing personal experiences of friendships that did and didn’t stay platonic. The episode dives into whether men feel safe expressing themselves, if women expect too much or misread intentions, and what it really means when someone is wasting your time, along with discussions on honesty, comparison being the thief of joy, and how men show up differently depending on the woman. They also get into accountability on both sides, arguing that women can be just as toxic, explore sexual openness, celebrity crushes, and “heaux friends,” and close with deeper reflections on financial expectations, shaken beliefs in Black love, and how upbringing and experiences with father figures shape dating perspectives.

    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • You've Got Decisions: He Cheated On Me, I Forgave Him..But Now I’m Cheating
    Apr 29 2026

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    “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!
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    18 mins
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