• Why Your Story Matters!
    Jul 5 2026

    The conversation explores the power of storytelling, the relevance of sharing personal stories, the impact of vulnerability and compassion, the identity and purpose of our stories.

    The conversation delves into the impact of community, emotional intelligence, church culture, suicidal ideation, unmet needs, depression, trauma, faith, and the power of storytelling and vulnerability. It emphasizes the role of community in healing and the balance of supernatural intervention and human support.

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    Takeaways

    • The power of storytelling lies in its ability to connect individuals through shared experiences and emotions.
    • Vulnerability, compassion, and love play a crucial role in the impact and relevance of personal storytelling. The importance of sharing your story for healing and hope
    • The role of community in providing validation and support for emotional healing

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Power of Storytelling
    • 05:30 The Value of Storytelling and Overcoming
    • 10:34 The Impact of Storytelling on Identity
    • 16:21 The Delicate Balance of Sharing Personal Experiences
    • 21:36 The Impact of Personal Experiences on Identity
    • 27:01 The Role of Personal Experiences in Advocacy
    • 32:01 The Impact of Community
    • 37:14 The Weight of Personal Stories
    • 43:47 The Role of Faith in Healing
    • 50:17 The Impact of Storytelling and Vulnerability
    • 56:37 The Balance of Supernatural Intervention and Human Support
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    47 mins
  • EQ for the equine
    Jun 15 2026

    The conversation delves into the intersection of horsemanship and emotional intelligence, exploring the dynamics of coaching and mentoring in the context of equine relationships. It emphasizes the importance of relational equity, patience, and self-reflection in horsemanship, drawing parallels to biblical references and the role of humanity in horse development.

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    Takeaways

    • Horsemanship coaching is about more than just skill development; it's about building relationships and emotional intelligence.
    • The role of patience, self-worth, and clear communication is crucial in the context of horsemanship and equine coaching.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Exploring Horsemanship and Emotional Intelligence
    • 05:01 Horses as Nonverbal Communicators
    • 09:56 Relational Equity in Horsemanship
    • 15:06 Accountability and Feedback in Horsemanship
    • 19:53 Managing Triggers and Expectations in Horsemanship
    • 25:09 Preparing the Horse for Riding
    • 30:13 Managing Triggers and Expectations in Horsemanship
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    43 mins
  • Why do good questions matter?
    May 29 2026

    The conversation explores the value of asking good questions, the impact of hard questions, and the role of questions in coaching and relationships.

    It delves into the connection between righteousness, peace, and joy, as well as the agenda of safety and curiosity in conversations.

    The conversation explores the transformative power of curiosity in relationships, parenting, and personal growth. It delves into the role of curiosity in spiritual mentorship and the impact of hard questions on personal development.

    The journey of self-discovery through curiosity is a central theme throughout the conversation. If you're looking for someone to ask the hard questions, email us at Britt@collumcollective.com

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    Takeaways

    • The power of good questions in fostering curiosity and understanding
    • The importance of creating a safe space for open dialogue and exploration Curiosity fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and others.
    • The value of good questions lies in their ability to challenge and affirm personal beliefs.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 The Power of Good Questions
    • 11:40 The Art of Asking Open-Ended Questions
    • 24:36 Navigating Opposition and Peace
    • 31:26 The Agenda of Safety and Curiosity
    • 36:44 Curiosity and the Image of God
    • 52:53 Curiosity and Spiritual Mentorship
    • 01:00:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery
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    48 mins
  • No sons, no limits. Empowering women
    May 3 2026

    The conversation covers the topics up coming events, empowering women, challenging belief systems, and questioning tradition.

    It delves into the importance of empowering women, the impact of belief systems on personal growth, and the process of questioning traditional norms and values. The conversation delves into the themes of trust and support in marriage, the impact of religion and theology on relationships, and the shifting theology and perspectives on women. It explores the dynamics of trust and support in marriage, the influence of religious beliefs on relationships, and the evolving perspectives on women within theological contexts. The conversation delves into the themes of parenting with humility and understanding, gender and spiritual identity, empathy and validation, emotional intelligence and religion, empowerment and modeling, championing spouses and partnerships, understanding and valuing individuality, stewardship and influence, parental responsibility and influence, equipping and empowering women, creating safe spaces and feedback, purpose and legacy, and support and understanding. The overarching takeaways include the importance of parenting with humility and valuing individuality in children.

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    Takeaways

    • Empowering Women
    • Challenging Belief Systems Trust and support in marriage
    • The impact of religion and theology on relationships Parenting with humility
    • Understanding and valuing individuality

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Retreats and Cohorts
    • 08:00 Challenging Belief Systems
    • 15:58 Questioning Tradition
    • 21:43 Trust and Support in Marriage
    • 38:17 Shifting Theology and Perspectives on Women
    • 45:54 Parenting with Humility and Understanding
    • 51:07 Championing Spouses and Partnerships
    • 56:26 Equipping and Empowering Women
    • 01:03:21 Purpose and Legacy
    • 01:08:43 Spiritual Identity and Legacy
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    55 mins
  • What's new for '26
    Mar 27 2026

    The conversation covers the exciting things happening in 2026, including the consolidation of coaching efforts, the launch of a new website collumcollective.com, and the offering of retreats and courses. It also delves into the importance of gender-inclusive spaces and the vision for online content and courses. The conversation covers the development of an intensive program focused on identity, personal growth, and spiritual development. It also discusses the challenges of launching and marketing the program, as well as the importance of community and connection.

    Takeaways

    • Consolidation of coaching efforts and the launch of a new website under the name 'Column Collective'
    • Offering of retreats, courses, and the vision for online content and courses Intensive Program
    • Marketing Challenges

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Vision for Online Content and Courses
    • 17:59 Developing an Intensive Program on Identity and Growth
    • 23:04 Marketing and Advertising Challenges
    • 28:26 Cohesive Platform and Sharing Information
    • 34:04 Website Launch and Social Media Presence
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    34 mins
  • 50/50 relationship
    Feb 16 2026

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    The conversation delves into the importance of relational intimacy, encompassing emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. It explores the impact of family of origin on intimacy, the role of purpose in connection, and the responsibility in relationships. Additionally, it discusses emotional processing, transparency, and vulnerability, emphasizing growth and intentionality in fostering intimacy. The conversation delves into the differences in communication between men and women, highlighting the societal assumptions that create different dynamics for each gender. It then explores the relevance of spiritual connection in relationships, emphasizing the importance of a secure belief system and the hierarchy of spiritual connection in relationships. The power of prayer and partnership in relationships is also discussed, emphasizing the need for specificity in requests for partnership and the impact of spiritual intimacy in friendships and relationships. The conversation delves into the power of prayer and spiritual connection in relationships, highlighting the importance of emotional and spiritual intimacy. It then explores the themes of responsibility and vulnerability in relationships, emphasizing the significance of emotional vulnerability and spiritual partnership. The dynamics of 50-50 in relationships are discussed, along with the importance of self-worth and healthy relationships. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on equipping healthy families and fostering spiritual and emotional connection in relationships.

    Takeaways

    • Relational intimacy involves emotional, spiritual, and physical connection.
    • Vulnerability and courage are essential for intimacy in relationships. Men and women communicate differently
    • Spiritual connection in relationships
    • The importance of a secure belief system
    • The power of prayer and partnership in relationships Spiritual intimacy in relationships
    • The importance of emotional and spiritual connection in relationships

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Growth and Intentionality
    • 49:05 Hierarchy of Spiritual Connection in Relationships and Identity
    • 01:01:16 The Power of Prayer and Spiritual Connection
    • 01:08:19 Responsibility and Vulnerability in Relationships
    • 01:15:02 Emotional Vulnerability and Spiritual Partnership
    • 01:22:06 The Dynamics of 50-50 in Relationships
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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Her Time Inside
    Feb 7 2026

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    This conversation delves into the experiences and insights gained from volunteering and working inside a prison. It explores the journey from volunteering, the initial experience inside the prison, leading an academy, understanding the correctional system, diverse structures of correctional facilities, learning curve and initial realizations, impact of trauma and power dynamics, community and resourcefulness, and deeper awareness and realization. The conversation delves into the weight of compassion, the power of courage in shifting culture, and the transformative impact of learning from incarcerated individuals.

    It also explores the need for a shift in perspective and the dangers of comparison, emphasizing the value of freedom and the understanding of persecution and conviction. The conversation delves into the impact of personal experiences, male presence, healthy relationships, and the need for restoration and freedom. It also explores the stigma of the criminal justice system and the importance of preventing hard experiences. The impact on children and the passion for humanity are also highlighted.

    Takeaways

    • Impact of trauma on incarcerated individuals
    • Diverse structures and dynamics of correctional facilities Courage and hope are contagious
    • The impact of punitive measures on hope
    • The need for a shift in perspective and motive
    • Avoiding the trap of comparison The need for healthy relationships and male presence
    • The importance of experiencing and preventing hard experiences

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Journey to Volunteering in Prison
    • 06:04 First Experience Inside the Prison
    • 13:23 Understanding the Correctional System
    • 19:29 Learning Curve and Initial Realizations
    • 27:18 Deeper Awareness and Realization
    • 34:08 Shifting Culture Through Courage
    • 50:10 Perception and Responsibility
    • 59:35 Reflection on Past Behavior
    • 01:05:15 Healing Through Healthy Relationships
    • 01:10:23 Stigma of Criminal Justice System
    • 01:16:04 Opportunity for Restoration
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    58 mins
  • Self-defeating games discussion
    Dec 31 2025

    The conversation delves into the topic of self-defeating behaviors, exploring the definition, impact of fear, and the dynamics of hiding behind judgments and spreading lies and gossip. It also highlights the internal, external, and vertical manifestations of self-defeating behaviors, emphasizing the role of fear and the need for empathy and compassion. The conversation delves into the importance of preserving connection in relationships and the impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication. It explores the dynamics of blended families, honest communication, and the role of accountability in maintaining healthy relationships. Additionally, it addresses the influence of self-defeating behaviors on communication and the need for setting boundaries. The conversation delves into the exploration of self-defeating behaviors, blame shifting, negative attention seeking, victim mentality, self-sabotage, emotional processing, getting them before they get you, understanding self-defeating behaviors, compassion, emotional intelligence, and self-worth course offering.

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    Takeaways

    • Self-defeating behaviors can manifest internally, externally, and vertically
    • Hiding behind judgments is often the number one self-defeating behavior of humanity Preserving connection in relationships
    • The impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication Understanding self-defeating behaviors
    • The impact of unprocessed emotions

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Spreading Lies and Gossip
    • 27:37 Preserving Connection in Relationships
    • 53:14 Blame Shifting and Offloading Responsibility onto God
    • 59:23 Getting Them Before They Get You
    • 01:08:07 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Worth Course Offering
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    1 hr and 7 mins