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Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

By: Aimee Latta RN MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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 Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach Hygiene & Healthy Living
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  • Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen

    Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen
    Apr 30 2026
    What if the reason your desire feels confusing, inconsistent, or even absent… is because it is not actually aligned with who you think you are?In this episode, I sit down with the OG in the sexual wellness space, somatic sex educator, and founder of Back to the Body Retreats, Pamela Madsen, for a bold and deeply eye-opening conversation about sexual identity and what it really means to live in alignment with your desire. We talk about the sexual authenticity model, the tension between who you believe you are, what you actually want, and how you show up in your relationships. Pamela shares her journey from being the “good girl” who had the perfect life on paper to confronting desire that did not fit her identity, and how that misalignment became the catalyst for everything that followed. We also get into why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, how desire gets suppressed over time, and what it takes to reconnect with your pleasure in a real, embodied way.We talk about:why your desire can feel out of sync with your current lifebecoming erotically fluent and learning how to feel againwhy safety is required for women to access pleasurethe difference between performing sex and experiencing itreconnecting with your body through somatic awarenesswhy your pleasure is something you actively take ownership ofIf you have ever felt like your desire does not match the life you are living, or like you are playing a role instead of actually experiencing pleasure, this episode is your invitation to get honest about what you want and start aligning your life around it. Your desire is not random. It is information. And when you learn how to listen to it, everything begins to shift.Connect with Pamela Madsen http://www.backtothebody.orghttps://www.instagram.com/backtothebodyorg/https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first orderhttps://motherlode-market.com/Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguideElevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6 Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/joinStay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimeeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee
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    39 mins
  • Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon

    Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon
    Apr 23 2026

    What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life?


    In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up.


    We also talk about:

    • why your pleasure is your responsibility, not your partner’s

    • moving out of “pick me” energy and into self-worth and boundaries

    • how to rebuild confidence and feel safe receiving pleasure again

    • the difference between performing in bed and actually experiencing pleasure

    • why nervous system safety is required for real intimacy and connection

    • how to listen to your body and trust what it is telling you


    If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body.


    Connect with Amber Joy Simon

    https://www.instagram.com/quivr_method/

    https://stan.store/QUIVR


    Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order

    https://motherlode-market.com/


    Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide


    Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6


    Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join


    Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:

    Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

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    48 mins
  • The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers

    The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers
    Apr 16 2026

    What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself?


    In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours.

    Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency.


    We talk about:

    • the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shifting

    • how purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desires

    • losing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you are

    • moving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desire

    • grief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart

    • learning how to choose yourself without guilt

    • why becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you do

    If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own.


    Connect with Lauren Elise Rogers

    https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/

    https://sexedforyou.com/connect


    Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order

    https://motherlode-market.com/


    Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide


    Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6


    Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join


    Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee:

    Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

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    1 hr and 11 mins
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