24 Lessons From 24 Years Of Marriage cover art

24 Lessons From 24 Years Of Marriage

24 Lessons From 24 Years Of Marriage

Listen for free

View show details

Summary

Today, I share 24 hard-earned lessons from 24 years of marriage, from building love maps to repairing after conflict. The biggest shift comes when we stop trying to be right and start choosing curiosity, clear requests, and respect for our differences.

• love is something we build intentionally rather than find
• updating love maps as we both keep changing
• harmony, disharmony, and repair as the normal relationship cycle
• trust built through repair instead of easy seasons
• arguments as signals of deeper needs to be seen and valued
• choosing understanding over being right, including yes and language
• two subjective realities and why curiosity creates compassion
• intimacy shaped by daily connection, playfulness, and freedom from pressure
• stop hinting and testing, start making clear requests and teaching your partner how to love you
• avoiding apathy with small consistent effort
• aiming for an intimate friendship and passionate partnership
• honoring differences as the source of passion and a path to intimacy

If this episode resonates with you, please reach out. You can find me on Instagram @monitalksmarriage or email me at Moni@monicatanner.com.


Send us Fan Mail

adbl_web_anon_alc_button_suppression_c
No reviews yet