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Will I Ever Have Sex Again?

A disarmingly honest and funny exploration of sex (and those who aren’t having it)

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Will I Ever Have Sex Again?

By: Sofie Hagen
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'This book had sex with my brain!' SARA PASCOE
'Hilarious. Intimate. Vital.' JAMEELA JAMIL
'I couldn't put the book down!' LAURA BATES

Comedian Sofie Hagen has not had sex in 3,000 days (and counting). And it turns out, she's not the only one . . .

In an attempt to find out why we're not having the sex we want, Sofie asks the questions: can we blame a lacking sex education? Is it all just sexual trauma? Where's the radical sexual liberation we were promised? What are we going to do about this? Should she have slept with that guy in that bush that one time? How do you overcome being a 35-year-old virgin (when it comes to queer sex, that is)? How do the socially awkward and the neurodiverse have sex?

In Will I Ever Have Sex Again?, Sofie Hagen explores the quirks and difficulties of being an 'involuntary celibate' (but one of the feminist, progressive ones). With a blend of memoir and conversations with experts, therapists, sex workers, porn stars, comedians and public figures, this is a humorous and bold undertaking to gain a better understanding of how we can think, talk and feel about sex.

The audiobook includes an exclusive bonus interview with fellow comedian, friend and author, Sara Pascoe.

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I enjoyed listening to the stories, meetings and interviews told in this book and the reflections throughout.

the honesty and relatable reflections

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Whether the stories reflect your experiences or not, there is something unique to navigating sexuality as a woman that we all share and I found myself reflecting on my own life throughout. Just for that reason it’s worth listening to. It’s also funny as hell and not a bummer like some other books about female sexuality can be.

Raw and hilarious

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Just beautiful, wonderful, curious. Sofie’s account of exploring our relationship with sex, why we have it, what it means, queer sex etc was EVERYTHING. Thoroughly enjoyed. This book is for everyone. Thank you Sofie!

Everyone needs to read this

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Found this a very relatable and interesting, well considered read. It was quite challenging at times due to my own experiences, but really made me consider how to move forward in this area.

Brilliant

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Fantastic insights, includung for people who are currently in sexual relationships. Devoured this in 2 days

Funny and thoughtful

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