What if the version of you that shows up at 6pm — snapping, threatening the iPad, locking herself in the bathroom for 30 seconds of peace — isn't a parenting problem at all?

What if it’s a nervous system problem?

Wendy Snyder is back on the show & this conversation is the one-two punch I've been waiting to bring you.

Wendy is a certified positive parenting educator, founder of Fresh Start Family, and host of the Fresh Start Family Show.

Her brand new book — Fresh Start Your Family: Powerful Parenting to Restore Peace in Your Home — comes out at the end of May, and inside it, she walks parents through the exact framework she used to break a generational pattern of reactivity, yelling, and corporal punishment in her own family.

We talk about why the high-achieving women in our community are particularly wired for reactive patterns at home (hint: the same nervous system that earned you the promotion is the one snapping in the kitchen), why "powerful parenting" is the opposite of "power over" parenting, and what it actually feels like in your body when you parent from your prefrontal cortex instead of your amygdala.

If your nervous system feels like it can hold the boardroom but not bedtime, this one is for you.

What you'll learn:

• The one belief most of us inherited about misbehavior that keeps us locked in reactive patterns (and what to replace it with)
• Wendy's "closed behavior to open behavior" process — how to find the space between
• What it looks like to trust your kid's humanity — Wendy's "let it grow" approach
• Why your kids will start cooperating not because they're scared of you, but because they actually look up to you

Resources Mentioned:

- Our First Conversation with Wendy

- Wendy's Book Fresh Start for Your Family

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